I’m 20 years old and pregnant for a married man

I am a 20 year old woman living in the UK and also studying here. My parents have been at war since I can remember and I have to rely on my siblings to take care of me, I am reluctant to ask them though as everyone works hard and times are difficult.
I have had my fair share of horrible boyfriends in the past few years, I have dated so many stingy men that would not give me a penny but I am usually not bothered about this as I don’t date men because of their money. I have although since decided to remain single and just have the usual one night stand because I am tired of the constant heartbreak and pain. Until recently.

I recently got introduced to a married man and the initial plan was to have him spend on me, I didn’t want to but as I was about to be kicked out of my flat for lack of payments I did what I had to. I wasn’t going to go any further with him but he turned out to be really nice. I tried to cut contact with him but unfortunately he had fallen head over heels in love with me. If he doesn’t see me or hear from me in an hour he becomes frantic and agitated. He tells all his friends here in the Uk about me, takes me to their houses and introduces me as his girlfriend.

This is a man with a wife and 4 beautiful children whom I happen to know very well through him introducing me to them. He keeps saying he would make me his second wife which of course I don’t believe and always has sex with me unprotected despite my refusal. Also he has not given me any more money since he paid my rent for the owed 2 months, any time I ask him he gives one excuse or the other, even paying for my cab to wherever is too much to ask of him. I desperately want to get out of it but now I think I might be pregnant for him.

I’m so confused about the next step, I’m scared if I tell him I’m pregnant he’ll disappear but I also can’t take care of a child on my own as I have not even graduated from university. I’ve thought about going to tell his wife but I’ll just be labelled a home wrecker and loaded with all the blame. Please what do I do?

Posted: at 22-06-2013 12:43 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

Dis is really complicated and I pray u cum out of it. I really feel sorry for wat u are going thru in dis ur young age. GOD is ur strength.

Posted: at 22-06-2013 01:45 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I knew something was fishy

Posted: at 22-06-2013 01:57 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Two wrongs can never make a right.You see what you did to yourself,from house rent which is a smaller problem you wanted to solve through the wrong means,you have ended up with a bigger problem of being pregnant outside wedlock.I think you should call the man and have a long talk with him.Please be careful about the choices yo make,do not create a bigger problem for yourself.Good luck.

Posted: at 22-06-2013 02:37 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

My sister, the mistake has already been made, telling his wife will not win you the pregnant lady of the year
award. Tell the man about the pregnancy, and let the chips fall where they may.

Posted: at 22-06-2013 02:48 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

STORY STORY, STORY

Posted: at 22-06-2013 02:57 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

If u tell the wife, she will send higher killers after u. Tell the man first n see his reaction. He might opt for an abortion.

Posted: at 22-06-2013 03:17 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

hired i mean

Posted: at 22-06-2013 03:18 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

sorry

Posted: at 22-06-2013 03:27 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

na dick dey sweet u ..open legs ..u just open am for him..just like that..this time na to carry legs up..not down..so carry go..osho free girl..

Posted: at 22-06-2013 03:38 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero