10 Types of SMS You Should Avoid Sending to Your Ex

Date: 17-07-2013 4:32 pm (10 years ago) | Author: Idbabe
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10 Types of SMS You Should Avoid Sending to Your ExOne-word texts. Don’t just text “Hey” or “Yo.” If you have something to say or ask, do so in your initial text. Get right to the point. Don’t put your ex in an awkward spot of trying to interpret why you’re contacting him/her.

Terms of endearment or flirty emoticons. You’re no longer a couple. Avoid using pet names or cute phrases that should be reserved for a relationship. You cannot keep the cute stuff post-breakup.

Resentful rants. If you’re upset, tell a friend. Do not text hurtful things just because you’re tired/lonely/drunk and it’s easy to do so. Take the high road into singleness.

“Why didn’t you text me back?” “Did you get my message?” Send one text. If he/she doesn’t respond, accept that contact is likely not welcome yet.

Relationship talk. Don’t debrief or reminisce over text. Beyond an initial post-breakup debriefing, which should be done in person, all relationship lessons should be shared with friends and your journal, not the person who broke your heart.

Booty-call requests. Never, ever a good idea.

“Thinking of you.” This isn’t helpful. It’s predictable that recent exes will still be thinking of each other. But once you’re no longer in a relationship, your ex should no longer be privy to your thought life.

Sexy pics. See: booty-call requests. Move on.

Desperate apologies and pleading. Do not try to win back your ex by begging over text.

A second text, and then a third. Once you’ve accomplished what you needed to do – he agreed to give your cat back on Thursday, for example – quit while you’re ahead. Be okay with being the one to end the text conversation.

When in doubt, don’t text your ex. Ever.

Posted: at 17-07-2013 04:32 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
- jane4real at 17-07-2013 09:16 PM (10 years ago)
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Posted: at 17-07-2013 09:16 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- buyakaka at 17-07-2013 09:21 PM (10 years ago)
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Ummm true talk
Posted: at 17-07-2013 09:21 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- merion at 17-07-2013 09:30 PM (10 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 17-07-2013 09:30 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- schmit at 17-07-2013 09:56 PM (10 years ago)
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ok ooooooooo
Posted: at 17-07-2013 09:56 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- dickman2 at 17-07-2013 10:09 PM (10 years ago)
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ok.
Posted: at 17-07-2013 10:09 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- zoe61 at 17-07-2013 10:25 PM (10 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 17-07-2013 10:25 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Senegal at 17-07-2013 10:53 PM (10 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 17-07-2013 10:53 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- beneno at 17-07-2013 10:54 PM (10 years ago)
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i gat no time for bullshit post  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 17-07-2013 10:54 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- inobilie at 17-07-2013 11:08 PM (10 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 17-07-2013 11:08 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chicco77 at 17-07-2013 11:19 PM (10 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 17-07-2013 11:19 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dareper at 17-07-2013 11:27 PM (10 years ago)
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I go come back come comment but make I chop my isi ewu finish.
Posted: at 17-07-2013 11:27 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- ebiteck at 17-07-2013 11:41 PM (10 years ago)
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real bullshit
Posted: at 17-07-2013 11:41 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oceaniccom at 18-07-2013 12:30 AM (10 years ago)
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U try wella
Posted: at 18-07-2013 12:30 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ozem at 18-07-2013 02:59 AM (10 years ago)
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 Wink Wink Wink
Posted: at 18-07-2013 02:59 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dlimelite at 18-07-2013 03:08 AM (10 years ago)
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Ok
Posted: at 18-07-2013 03:08 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Ecto at 18-07-2013 05:02 AM (10 years ago)
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What d point texting ur ex in d 1st place?
Posted: at 18-07-2013 05:02 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osamabinladin at 18-07-2013 06:11 AM (10 years ago)
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Alright !
Posted: at 18-07-2013 06:11 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- chanst at 18-07-2013 07:05 AM (10 years ago)
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Ok oo
Posted: at 18-07-2013 07:05 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Shegzan at 18-07-2013 07:07 AM (10 years ago)
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Kk sha#

Posted: at 18-07-2013 07:07 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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