Why Do Guys Get Jealous Even When They Don’t Want To Date You?

When will guys learn that they can’t have their cake and eat it, too? I can’t believe that even in our modern, relatively socially progressive society.. I still have to explain to countless delusional men that without a verbal commitment, a lady is free to talk to, date and kiss anyone she wants!

Of course, there is always a tenuous period early in any relationship during which a guy or girl is faced with temptation before boundaries have been explicitly determined. At this point, it’s best to use your discretion don’t do anything you wouldn’t want your partner to do and don’t assume your partner is following the same restrictions you are without having an open discussion.

But when a guy has made it clear that he only wants to be “friends,” a line in the sand has been drawn and he’s lost the privilege of bearing any influence on your interactions with other dudes. As a “friend,” you can do whatever you want! And don’t feel guilty about it, either.

The exciting news is that he probably gets jealous because he really likes you. The less exciting news is that it doesn’t necessarily mean he wants to be your boyfriend. It’s as if he wants exclusive rights to driving a car while refusing to buy or even lease! the vehicle. Obviously you’re much more than an engine and four wheels, but my point is that he wants to “possess” you without any of the emotional or physical responsibility that comes with a relationship. That’s not a good start for any new romance. Whether you’ve had enough of him, or are still absolutely bent on locking him down, your best bet is to cut him off.

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Posted: at 23-09-2013 04:35 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

for the foolish once

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Posted: at 25-09-2013 08:48 PM (11 years ago) | Hero