Is it bad allowing people to know you hold them in high esteem? If NOT BAD, they may end up taking your emotion for granted, for the fact that they know you care.., you know what that means. If BAD, what could then be the remedy, pretence or nonchalant.......? knowing that it might create room for more problems. So is it really bad or good to show it out??? clear explanation 'ill be appreciate.... lol.
Posted: at 15-07-2009 09:27 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
naijadbest at 15-07-2009 09:33 PM (15 years ago) (m)
It's good my dear, but you may get different understanding,mean while people may get you twisted,is this not the kind of respond you're expecting?
Posted: at 15-07-2009 09:33 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
I hope You understand Your usage of this word ''High esteem''..........No offence meant!! I'm wondering how someone can take Your 'EMOTIONS' for granted simply cuz You hold 'em in 'HIGH ESTEEM'.
Well....People have to EARN being on my top chart of respect/high esteem and sometimes I try to let 'em know they are there......Plus it takes just a few stupid acts from them to make them fall down to level Zero.
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 15-07-2009 09:41 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
poster, understanding what ur trying to say, it goes both ways, and it depends on the person. if is a best friend that u just don't wanna loose if things go wrong, then, you just hold ur peace, there is no ignorance about it. if is someone ur getting to know, that u think u might loose if u don't tell him, then, go ahead and tell him.
Posted: at 15-07-2009 09:55 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
nellygold at 15-07-2009 10:00 PM (15 years ago) (f)
@ welli the high esteem i meant here is b/w bf n gf, maybe one of them get to know dat he or she can't do without them, she/he now start being over proud knowing fully well that they are being loved by that person, n no one else interest her/him apart from....., which my lead that fellow to agony or call it heartbreak, hope am clear now
@naijadbest what are u trying to figure out here? lol
Posted: at 15-07-2009 10:00 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@ welli the high esteem i meant here is b/w bf n gf, maybe one of them get to know dat he or she can't do without them, she/he now start being over proud knowing fully well that they are being loved by that person, n no one else interest her/him apart from....., which my lead that fellow to agony or call it heartbreak, hope am clear now
Okay!!
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 15-07-2009 10:03 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
PreetyInstinct at 15-07-2009 11:47 PM (15 years ago) (f)
@Poster if they hold u in high esteem how will they or how do they hold is d question?......hehehehe
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 15-07-2009 11:47 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Is it bad allowing people to know you hold them in high esteem? If NOT BAD, they may end up taking your emotion for granted, for the fact that they know you care.., you know what that means. If BAD, what could then be the remedy, pretence or nonchalant.......? knowing that it might create room for more problems. So is it really bad or good to show it out??? clear explanation 'ill be appreciate.... lol.
depends on the individual
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Posted: at 16-07-2009 02:31 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
PreetyInstinct at 16-07-2009 02:36 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 15-07-2009 11:47 PM
@Poster if they hold u in you hold them in high esteem how will they or how do they hold u is d question?......hehehehe
again typo mistake.....
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 16-07-2009 02:36 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 16-07-2009 03:54 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: nellygold on 15-07-2009 09:27 PM
Is it bad allowing people to know you hold them in high esteem? If NOT BAD, they may end up taking your emotion for granted, for the fact that they know you care.., you know what that means. If BAD, what could then be the remedy, pretence or nonchalant.......? knowing that it might create room for more problems. So is it really bad or good to show it out??? clear explanation 'ill be appreciate.... lol.
that is why u should not let people know ur soft spot or weak point....
diplomatik at 16-07-2009 03:58 AM (15 years ago) (f)
@ poster....i no get time now...gonna sleep...
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 16-07-2009 03:58 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Is it bad allowing people to know you hold them in high esteem? If NOT BAD, they may end up taking your emotion for granted, for the fact that they know you care.., you know what that means. If BAD, what could then be the remedy, pretence or nonchalant.......? knowing that it might create room for more problems. So is it really bad or good to show it out??? clear explanation 'ill be appreciate.... lol.
It ain't bad.
I rock my world.
Posted: at 16-07-2009 09:33 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Is it bad allowing people to know you hold them in high esteem? If NOT BAD, they may end up taking your emotion for granted, for the fact that they know you care.., you know what that means. If BAD, what could then be the remedy, pretence or nonchalant.......? knowing that it might create room for more problems. So is it really bad or good to show it out??? clear explanation 'ill be appreciate.... lol.
Sometimes it is. Not many people can control the urge to treat with contempt that which is common. I think we all need to just know our sefl worth and not get conceited about it and keep it at heart when we exress appreciation fr others or praise them for their qualities we admire.
Posted: at 16-07-2009 09:56 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
Is it bad allowing people to know you hold them in high esteem? If NOT BAD, they may end up taking your emotion for granted, for the fact that they know you care.., you know what that means. If BAD, what could then be the remedy, pretence or nonchalant.......? knowing that it might create room for more problems. So is it really bad or good to show it out??? clear explanation 'ill be appreciate.... lol.
It's neither good or bad. Give respect to ppl as much as you would want to be respected. It's okay to let ppl know how much you value them and let them understand that you deserve as much value from them. It's a simple reciprocal process.
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i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either 
, i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool 
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