Cheating husband/wife

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(f) at 7-11-2013 05:59PM (6 years ago)

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If your husband/wife cheated on you, it's normal u feel hurt, upset, angry, etc.
These few tips will help u to 'get over it'....

Give yourself the TIME to get over it ! It's ok to cry, lay in bed, as long as u want/need. Know that it is a difficult time ur
going through, but nothing last forever, so not even this bad feelings.

DONT TALK WITH YOUR PARTNER, untill ur anger cool down! This is very important if u decide to stay in the relationship after.
Give yourself rest first, eat correct food, go to the gym, meditate, pray,...Get the stress out of ur system.

ITS OK TO ASK QUESTIONS, but u dont have to know every detail. Communication is very important, and of course u guys have
to talk about what happened, to gain enough information and close the chapture. Avoid questions like 'was he/she more pretty/thin/better
then me?' because if your partner decide to answer in all honnesty, u might get hurt more, if he/she is not honnest about it, u will keep wondering
why he/she cheat on u in the first place.

SHARING your story with friends or family is ok, but be careful! It's better to tell 1 or 2 people u trust, then to let everybody know u have a cheat home.
If u decide to leave it all behind u and keep your relationship others will judge your partner, and u will find urself defending him/her everywhere u go.

If u decide to keep the r/s, don't be a CONTROLE FREAK ! Don't check his/her phone, e mail, browser history, because it will
keep feeding ur angry feelings or worst u will search till u find something.

--> The biggest question is, break up or stay together... Ask yourself these questions:

1.How was the relationship before he/she cheated? Was it a mistake, or the last drop to fill the bucket ?
2. Is your partner realy feeling sorry for what happened? Is he/she trying everything to make things ok again?
3.Can u forgive him/her? If u cant let it go, dont stay in the r/s because it will be torture for both of u!





jossy4reall (m) at 7-11-2013 06:50PM
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waiting for my partner to cheat first...in fact I will tell my partner to cheat so I can try this techniques

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FlyMamacita (f) at 7-11-2013 06:55PM
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Quote from: jossy4reall on  7-11-2013 06:50PM
waiting for my partner to cheat first...in fact I will tell my partner to cheat so I can try this techniques

Shocked  Grin ok make u tell me d outcom afta
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francischi (m) at 7-11-2013 07:04PM
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--> The biggest question is, break up or stay together... Ask yourself these questions:
  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

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FlyMamacita (f) at 7-11-2013 07:05PM
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
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jossy4reall (m) at 7-11-2013 08:26PM
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  7-11-2013 06:55PM
Shocked  Grin ok make u tell me d outcom afta

but Flymama if e no work as u claim den me and u go get problem cuz u assure me say the tips will help to get over it

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FlyMamacita (f) at 7-11-2013 09:17PM
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Quote from: jossy4reall on  7-11-2013 08:26PM
but Flymama if e no work as u claim den me and u go get problem cuz u assure me say the tips will help to get over it

haaaa u see, like dis e no go work...tink positive  Grin
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jossy4reall (m) at 7-11-2013 09:55PM
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  7-11-2013 09:17PM
haaaa u see, like dis e no go work...tink positive  Grin

chaii...laff wan bend my dick....u don dey discharge ur self be dat  Grin,,for dat I no go try am as u no guarantee me say e go work...make I no go dabaru my marriage...lol

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FlyMamacita (f) at 7-11-2013 10:08PM
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Quote from: ajanni on  7-11-2013 09:28PM
noted

 Cool
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FlyMamacita (f) at 7-11-2013 10:10PM
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Quote from: jossy4reall on  7-11-2013 09:55PM
chaii...laff wan bend my dick....u don dey discharge ur self be dat  Grin,,for dat I no go try am as u no guarantee me say e go work...make I no go dabaru my marriage...lol

Grin Grin na u knw ur wife ehn, if na crase pesin, no try am  Grin make she no throw u from d stairs
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jossy4reall (m) at 7-11-2013 10:17PM
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  7-11-2013 10:10PM
Grin Grin na u knw ur wife ehn, if na crase pesin, no try am  Grin make she no throw u from d stairs

I no go try am at all....the fear of my wife is the beginning of peace in our home

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FlyMamacita (f) at 7-11-2013 10:18PM
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Quote from: jossy4reall on  7-11-2013 10:17PM
I no go try am at all....the fear of my wife is the beginning of peace in our home

Gud guy  Cool
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ajanni (m) at 7-11-2013 10:34PM
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  7-11-2013 10:08PM
Cool
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
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jossy4reall (m) at 7-11-2013 10:46PM
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Quote from: ajanni on  7-11-2013 10:34PM
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

ajanni if I tear u hot slap u go carry dat ur shocking eyez comot fro raod

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ajanni (m) at 8-11-2013 08:19AM
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ppl will feel so sorri for your mama so
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jossy4reall (m) at 8-11-2013 10:47AM
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no make me loose my temper ooo

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FlyMamacita (f) at 8-11-2013 03:33PM
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Quote from: ajanni on  7-11-2013 10:34PM
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

Close ur mouth, wetin do u sef  Angry Roll Eyes
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Jeninflower (f) at 8-11-2013 04:45PM
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Reading funny comments
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FlyMamacita (f) at 8-11-2013 04:46PM
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add ur own nah  Roll Eyes
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Jeninflower (f) at 8-11-2013 04:49PM
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Brb just let me drink water, dennnnn
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