If your husband/wife cheated on you, it's normal u feel hurt, upset, angry, etc. These few tips will help u to 'get over it'....
Give yourself the TIME to get over it ! It's ok to cry, lay in bed, as long as u want/need. Know that it is a difficult time ur going through, but nothing last forever, so not even this bad feelings.
DONT TALK WITH YOUR PARTNER, untill ur anger cool down! This is very important if u decide to stay in the relationship after. Give yourself rest first, eat correct food, go to the gym, meditate, pray,...Get the stress out of ur system.
ITS OK TO ASK QUESTIONS, but u dont have to know every detail. Communication is very important, and of course u guys have to talk about what happened, to gain enough information and close the chapture. Avoid questions like 'was he/she more pretty/thin/better then me?' because if your partner decide to answer in all honnesty, u might get hurt more, if he/she is not honnest about it, u will keep wondering why he/she cheat on u in the first place.
SHARING your story with friends or family is ok, but be careful! It's better to tell 1 or 2 people u trust, then to let everybody know u have a cheat home. If u decide to leave it all behind u and keep your relationship others will judge your partner, and u will find urself defending him/her everywhere u go.
If u decide to keep the r/s, don't be a CONTROLE FREAK ! Don't check his/her phone, e mail, browser history, because it will keep feeding ur angry feelings or worst u will search till u find something.
--> The biggest question is, break up or stay together... Ask yourself these questions:
1.How was the relationship before he/she cheated? Was it a mistake, or the last drop to fill the bucket ? 2. Is your partner realy feeling sorry for what happened? Is he/she trying everything to make things ok again? 3.Can u forgive him/her? If u cant let it go, dont stay in the r/s because it will be torture for both of u!
Posted: at 7-11-2013 05:59 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
jossy4reall at 7-11-2013 06:50 PM (10 years ago) (m)
waiting for my partner to cheat first...in fact I will tell my partner to cheat so I can try this techniques
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 7-11-2013 06:50 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
jossy4reall at 7-11-2013 09:55 PM (10 years ago) (m)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 7-11-2013 09:17 PM
haaaa u see, like dis e no go work...tink positive
chaii...laff wan bend my dick....u don dey discharge ur self be dat ,,for dat I no go try am as u no guarantee me say e go work...make I no go dabaru my marriage...lol
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 7-11-2013 09:55 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 7-11-2013 10:10 PM (10 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jossy4reall on 7-11-2013 09:55 PM
chaii...laff wan bend my dick....u don dey discharge ur self be dat ,,for dat I no go try am as u no guarantee me say e go work...make I no go dabaru my marriage...lol
na u knw ur wife ehn, if na crase pesin, no try am make she no throw u from d stairs
Posted: at 7-11-2013 10:10 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
jossy4reall
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