Unhappy with your current relationship? Here are some ideas for ending it on good terms.
Steps
1. However kind you may be, there is no way around the fact that this is going to hurt the other person. All you can do is try to minimize the pain. 2. Do not break up with the person by phone, instant message, or e-mail; this is disrespectful. Have the decency to do it privately and in person. 3. Try to avoid placing blame on the other person for the break up. Be as minimalist as possible in your explanation, especially if the reason for the break up is some fault you find with your partner. Don't be afraid to tell a little white lie to spare their feelings. It's much better to say something like "I need some space to grow as a person" than to say "You really annoy me". 4. Afterwards, tell the person that you hope to stay in touch and that you still care about them. 5. And if you don't really want to be friends with her, don't say,"Oh, but we can still be friends." It hurts more if you avoid her.
Tips
* Following these rules will make the process much more painless for both of you and may get you a positive reference in the future. * NEVER EVER EVER EVER say any of the classic break-up lines like "It's not you, it's me." * Wait some time before getting another girlfriend, especially if your former girlfriend will run into you often.
Warnings
* Let the break up be final. Don't keep going back and hooking up with the person over and over again.
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 2-08-2007 09:04 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
depends.........if you figure out that you are not compatible with your partner.... your love for them will make you want to breakup in the nicest way you can....so that they can have a life afterwards...
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 3-08-2007 12:40 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
freemandan at 6-08-2007 07:36 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Any way any thing can be done well.i had such an expireince.i qite up immidiately without takeing it seriously with her.i made her know that i really love and ready to care for her but deep in my hearth it was not so..at last we broke up without qurrel .
Posted: at 6-08-2007 07:36 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
well i like your write up to be sincere i dont think there are rules that guides breaking a relationships depends on the circumstances.this is nobal and i will like to be a friend cheersss.
Posted: at 7-08-2007 06:57 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
khadijah at 28-12-2007 12:32 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dguy on 2-08-2007 09:04 AM
Unhappy with your current relationship? Here are some ideas for ending it on good terms.
Steps
1. However kind you may be, there is no way around the fact that this is going to hurt the other person. All you can do is try to minimize the pain. 2. Do not break up with the person by phone, instant message, or e-mail; this is disrespectful. Have the decency to do it privately and in person. 3. Try to avoid placing blame on the other person for the break up. Be as minimalist as possible in your explanation, especially if the reason for the break up is some fault you find with your partner. Don't be afraid to tell a little white lie to spare their feelings. It's much better to say something like "I need some space to grow as a person" than to say "You really annoy me". 4. Afterwards, tell the person that you hope to stay in touch and that you still care about them. 5. And if you don't really want to be friends with her, don't say,"Oh, but we can still be friends." It hurts more if you avoid her.
Tips
* Following these rules will make the process much more painless for both of you and may get you a positive reference in the future. * NEVER EVER EVER EVER say any of the classic break-up lines like "It's not you, it's me." * Wait some time before getting another girlfriend, especially if your former girlfriend will run into you often.
Warnings
* Let the break up be final. Don't keep going back and hooking up with the person over and over again.
there's no special way to break up nicely,a chick ll take it whatever way she wants heartbroken or otherwise.
Posted: at 28-12-2007 12:32 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
it wouldn't make sense to do that...but then again....the guy might be gay and just want some dick fun instead of honeypot fun..gotta think about that too
Posted: at 28-12-2007 06:04 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dejifortune at 28-12-2007 06:06 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 28-12-2007 06:04 PM
it wouldn't make sense to do that...but then again....the guy might be gay and just want some dick fun instead of honeypot fun..gotta think about that too
Having a sexy lady like you with the most sexiest figure eight, it will be stupid to turn to a gay.........not me expecially with you around......
dejifortunecares
Posted: at 28-12-2007 06:06 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
To me i don't believe this rule will work especially when the lady is madly in love with you. such a thing happen to me and i am telling you from experience.
Posted: at 28-12-2007 07:18 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
To me i don't believe this rule will work especially when the lady is madly in love with you. such a thing happen to me and i am telling you from experience.
*what are your experiences?*
Posted: at 28-12-2007 07:39 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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