ABC for a more positive relationship

Date: 20-11-2013 7:20 pm (10 years ago) | Author: katrien
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Affection

Showing affection is important. Don’t save displays of affection just for the bedroom. Hold hands; give a quick hug and squeeze or a peck on the cheek when least expected.

Be

Learn how to just be in the moment as a couple without judgments or expectations.

Communication

Communication is a major part of any relationship. Let your partner know what’s on your mind in an honest and tactful way at all times.

Dedication

Devote yourself to your relationship. Make it a priority in your life, putting it ahead of work and other responsibilities.

Example

Follow the example of other happy couples you know. Let them be role models for the kind of relationship you’d like to have.

Friendship

Positive relationships exist where a couple can be friends as well as lovers. Value and cultivate your friendship with your partner.

Gratitude

Experts say that a daily dose of gratitude can increase happiness and positivity. Express gratitude for your partner and your relationship!

Humor

Life can sometimes be way too serious and that includes relationships. Lighten up and bring some humor into your lives. Tell jokes, watch funny movies and don’t be afraid to act silly.

Intimacy

Always make time for intimacy. Sex helps a couple bond and stay close. How often is up to you. Remember it’s quality not quantity that counts!

Journal

Journaling helps you get in touch with your feelings, which is healthy for you both!

Karma

Understanding cause and effect can help your relationship. Before one of you picks a fight, remember what goes around comes around.

Listen

Improving your listening skills always makes for a better relationship. Instead of thinking about your response, be fully engaged in what your partner is saying.

Money

More trouble starts over money than anything else. Come to an understanding over your spending and saving styles. Set ground rules for a budget and stick to them.

Nurture

Foster an environment of caring and nurturing in your relationship. Show your concern for each other and support your growth as a couple.

Occasion

Try to create a sense of occasion every now and then. Don’t limit celebrations to holidays and birthdays. Go on a date night once in awhile. Get dressed up and do the town!

Positivity

When things get tough, focus on the good things you share together. Enhance your positivity as a couple and it can help you weather any storm.

Quirks

Love them or hate them, we all have little quirks. Recognize your partner’s and your own. No matter how you feel about them, accept them as part of the package deal. In the long run it will save you a lot of stress.

Respect

Aretha Franklin sang about it and no relationship should be without it. Honor your partner, yourself and the bond you share.

Support

A positive relationship is one of teamwork where partners help each other. No matter the goal, support can lead the way to success and happiness.

Time

Vow to spend time together as a couple. In dealing with all of life’s demands, sometimes the relationship takes a back seat. Make the effort to squeeze in a few minutes of quality time every day.

Understanding

Strive to display understanding in your relationship. It is an expression of true compassion and allows for a safe emotional space.

Vacation

Take some vacation time! Go away and get a change of scenery. It will refresh and recharge you both!

Work

Developing a more positive relationship takes work. As much as we like instant gratification and easy fixes, it won’t work in a partnership. Be prepared to make the effort. It’s totally worth it!

X-factor

Each relationship has something unique. Whether it’s a set of values, a hobby or even a love of horror flicks, capitalize on that. Treasure those things that make your connection special.

Youth

Age doesn’t matter if you are young at heart. Find something that you both like to do which provides a sense of childlike wonder and enthusiasm.

Zest

Spice up your lives by trying something new. It will create a sense of adventure for the two of you to share!

Posted: at 20-11-2013 07:20 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero