Who is to be blame

Date: 04-08-2009 1:32 am (15 years ago) | Author: Ayeni Olamide
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- at 4-08-2009 01:32 AM (15 years ago)
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Please i need some one o tell me if am wrong about this situation.. My girlfriend traveled to school last two weeks which i was aware but normally she is suppose to come back two to three days, but she spent one week and four days in school without telling me what occur while she was still in school, She came back yesterday which i behaved in a way i never did to her before in her life and she really felt embarrassed. Please who is to be blame?

Posted: at 4-08-2009 01:32 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- erikaakpan at 4-08-2009 01:37 AM (15 years ago)
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confee u just reacted on how u felt at the time, there is no need for neither of u to feel embarrassed and there is no one to blame.....

Posted: at 4-08-2009 01:37 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 4-08-2009 01:43 AM (15 years ago)
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@Confee this is not d matter of accusation or blaming no1 but insecurity....actually i dunno i think i am chatting rubbish... :-Xjust 4get wat happened talk over things and move on ok ciao!!!.

Posted: at 4-08-2009 01:43 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- femiluve at 4-08-2009 02:13 AM (15 years ago)
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@erikaakpan
We are quarreling on this issue presently but she did not apologies the way i wanted her to so......what else should i do to make her apologies the  way i want
Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:13 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- PreetyInstinct at 4-08-2009 02:18 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: femiluve on  4-08-2009 02:13 AM
@erikaakpan
We are quarreling on this issue presently but she did not apologies the way i wanted her to so......what else should i do to make her apologies the  way i want
Ermmm sorry ooo i know u was not talking 2 me......but if i may ask how did u want her 2 beg u?on her knees crying and weeping?or she warms ur bed?wetin?y does d apology matter so much sef?wat did she do that was so bad?abeg leave matter ooo chow.

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:18 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 4-08-2009 02:19 AM (15 years ago)
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femi i really dnt understand y she would be embarrassed over the way u reacted and i dnt understand y u want a specific apology from her. wats the right way to apologize then? if im not understanding correctly u can inbox me if u want.....

anyways this isnt something you all should be quarreling about, kiss and make up

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:19 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 4-08-2009 02:23 AM (15 years ago)
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Abi oooo

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:23 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 4-08-2009 02:25 AM (15 years ago)
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wetin PI

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:25 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 4-08-2009 02:28 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on  4-08-2009 02:25 AM
wetin PI
I am agreeing with u na... Smiley

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:28 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 4-08-2009 02:29 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on  4-08-2009 02:28 AM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  4-08-2009 02:25 AM
wetin PI
I am agreeing with u na... Smiley

ok  ohhh

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:29 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 4-08-2009 02:34 AM (15 years ago)
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Wat did u think i was doing? Huh?

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:34 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 4-08-2009 02:35 AM (15 years ago)
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idk...i didnt kno wat u meant by abi ooo

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:35 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Vixenx at 4-08-2009 02:38 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: femiluve on  4-08-2009 01:32 AM
Please i need some one o tell me if am wrong about this situation.. My girlfriend traveled to school last two weeks which i was aware but normally she is suppose to come back two to three days, but she spent one week and four days in school without telling me what occur while she was still in school, She came back yesterday which i behaved in a way i never did to her before in her life and she really felt embarrassed. Please who is to be blame?

You are to be blamed! And so what if she stayed for extra one day? is she your baby daughter that must tell you everything she does? you are just a boyfriend not even a husband, plz give the poor gurl a break and chill out.
Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:38 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 4-08-2009 02:39 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on  4-08-2009 02:35 AM
idk...i didnt kno wat u meant by abi ooo
Oh yea ur not nigerian rite?my bad.... Undecided

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:39 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 4-08-2009 02:40 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on  4-08-2009 02:39 AM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  4-08-2009 02:35 AM
idk...i didnt kno wat u meant by abi ooo
Oh yea ur not nigerian rite?my bad.... Undecided

its ok, i get it all the time.....

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:40 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 4-08-2009 02:45 AM (15 years ago)
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Ok... Cool

Posted: at 4-08-2009 02:45 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ironlady at 4-08-2009 06:35 AM (15 years ago)
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give d gyal a break n chill guy!!!she may have an explanation 4 dat self..ahan ur d bf na must she tell u everything???
Posted: at 4-08-2009 06:35 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- femiluve at 4-08-2009 06:52 AM (15 years ago)
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@ironlady yes she have to tell me evrything because i tell her everything too.
Posted: at 4-08-2009 06:52 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- ironlady at 4-08-2009 06:53 AM (15 years ago)
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hmm anyways dat how u both like it well did u ask her why she came home late?
Posted: at 4-08-2009 06:53 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 4-08-2009 06:58 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: femiluve on  4-08-2009 06:52 AM
@ironlady yes she have to tell me evrything because i tell her everything too.
So na by force?every1 is not d same ok?don't put urself in uneccassary drama ....u can not force her if she does'nt want 2 and this na ur mere gurl rite?i think u have something in mind perhaps u think dat she may possibly may be seeing something one else abi?or wetin? Huh?

Posted: at 4-08-2009 06:58 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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