Dear OBB readers: My husband and I can't stand each other anymore

From a female OBB reader

    I married this man in an elaborate wedding that cost both our parents a fortune less than a year ago. I can't stand him anymore. And he's told me on numerous occasions that he can't stand me either. At the time I married him everyone told me he was the ideal guy and comes from a good, wealthy family. We dated for less than a year before getting married but the marriage was over before it even started. He's spoilt, egocentric and with him there's no middle ground. It's his way or the high way. These things I only noticed after I married him. I sincerely can't see myself spending the rest of my life with this man. The last time he touched me was just five months into our marriage. I'm sure he's getting it somewhere else but who cares? We are still keeping up appearances and still live in the same house but I want out. Thing is, my parents will be so disappointed in me because they have invested so much in us. I don't want to disappoint them because I am the first daughter but I'm tired of this sham of a marriage. Apart from my parents I don't want my friends to laugh at me because they are all happily married. What should I do?

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Posted: at 7-03-2014 09:52 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

go for deliverance,spirit husband is not aways happy to see love with another,even if you get another man there must be another issue,secondly marriage is not bread and butter and learn how to sumit to your husband for he is the head,i can tell you are full of ego but it wont help you,pray hard and humble yourself to your husband and study him more to find what he dislikes,these are the keys inteligents women use on their husband.i have been married for 11yrs i tell you i am hard headed but my wife knows how dislodge me,her humility pressures me into helping her do some house work and cooking which if she was egomaniac count me out in any house work,good luck,chijioke from houston texas

Posted: at 7-03-2014 10:39 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie