Recently i read some articles that talked about the reasons why men break up with their gurlfriends or get divorced from their wives, people, it is just crazy coz majority of them kept saying they want their freedom back, i dont undertsand, a relationship is sopposed to be two involved right? why den do the men keep blaming it on the women? i dont undertsand, are they trying to say having a relationship is a woman's way of trapping a man? i really dnt get it.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 06:24 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
A man wants his freedom when he feels trapped in a relationship. That myt not necessarily mean he doesnt have the freedom to do what he wants. Usually just means he's not getting the "rest" he expected being with the woman he is with, or at least everything logical suggests he isnt... esp if she nags a lot. A woman should feel like home and rest, not anther battlefield for her man.
Similar reason why girls feel the need for freedom; only in a girls case she mostly feels choked when she feels she's missing out on "something out there" being with the guy she's with. Truth is she myt 'have it all and have it good' and still feel like she's missing out on something. Sadly girls believe their feelings too much.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 02:43 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Recently i read some articles that talked about the reasons why men break up with their gurlfriends or get divorced from their wives, people, it is just crazy coz majority of them kept saying they want their freedom back, i dont undertsand, a relationship is sopposed to be two involved right? why den do the men keep blaming it on the women? i dont undertsand, are they trying to say having a relationship is a woman's way of trapping a man? i really dnt get it.
na u talk am oooooooo............
Posted: at 4-09-2009 04:51 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
Yh... I dont gerrit either.. why is it only about MEN actually... I am dis type who used to break twice at least because I wanted ma "freedom" back. ;-)
Posted: at 4-09-2009 04:57 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
@ topic, men use that expression, when they are tired of a r /s .and that's the characteristic of a player,gigolo and a flirt.....they always want to perch on every & any thing .(its common during the summer time )
Posted: at 4-09-2009 09:52 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
Onye_Ocha at 4-09-2009 05:26 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: rectify on 3-09-2009 06:24 AM
Recently i read some articles that talked about the reasons why men break up with their gurlfriends or get divorced from their wives, people, it is just crazy coz majority of them kept saying they want their freedom back, i dont undertsand, a relationship is sopposed to be two involved right? why den do the men keep blaming it on the women? i dont undertsand, are they trying to say having a relationship is a woman's way of trapping a man? i really dnt get it.
I know, right? Well, men are not that complicated after all (no offense boys) I guess we can avoid this by not locking on each other in a relationship. It's important to have a life outside of the two of you. Let him have his "boys night out" every other week or so. Have your own "girls night out" every once in while. Thus you won't be too clingy and he, hopefully, won't feel choked. Works great for me
Posted: at 4-09-2009 05:26 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
@ topic, men use that expression, when they are tired of a r /s .and that's the characteristic of a player,gigolo and a flirt.....they always want to perch on every & any thing .(its common during the summer time )
Hhhmmm.... how i like summer time....
Posted: at 4-09-2009 11:14 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Recently i read some articles that talked about the reasons why men break up with their gurlfriends or get divorced from their wives, people, it is just crazy coz majority of them kept saying they want their freedom back, i dont undertsand, a relationship is sopposed to be two involved right? why den do the men keep blaming it on the women? i dont undertsand, are they trying to say having a relationship is a woman's way of trapping a man? i really dnt get it.
I know, right? Well, men are not that complicated after all (no offense boys) I guess we can avoid this by not locking on each other in a relationship. It's important to have a life outside of the two of you. Let him have his "boys night out" every other week or so. Have your own "girls night out" every once in while. Thus you won't be too clingy and he, hopefully, won't feel choked. Works great for me
Posted: at 4-09-2009 11:16 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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I guess we can avoid this by not locking on each other in a relationship. It's important to have a life outside of the two of you. Let him have his "boys night out" every other week or so. Have your own "girls night out" every once in while. Thus you won't be too clingy and he, hopefully, won't feel choked. Works great for me 
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