I was hospitalised after my husband left me in less than a month- Princess

Date: 24-08-2014 6:01 am (9 years ago) | Author: ajomani
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- at 24-08-2014 06:01 AM (9 years ago)
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Comediene, Damilola Adekoya,better known as Princess has opened up to Punch on how her marriage ended in less than a month. She said the marriage was already over a few days after the wedding but she kept it a secret to avoid the shame..

You didn’t say what was wrong with you that you had to be hospitalised?
But you already know. We thank the Lord. The most important thing is that I am alive and better. I appreciate life more. But this one you are asking, e no reach make I sick? After my husband left after our wedding, was it not enough reason for me to be sick?  Ah! The Lord is our strength.


Were you shocked with the kind of publicity it generated?
I was shocked! People called me from all parts of the world including China. Some people cried while some people felt happy. Some guys said they were happy my marriage ended. Some said they were not happy that I even married the guy. Some said I looked older than him. Some said my marriage shouldn’t have ended just like that. People talked and talked.But the only time you know your marriage is successful is when you live with your partner and God calls one of you home. Marriage of 30 years can still break up. It is a bad thing for a marriage to breakup. So you can imagine the unhappiness the parties involved would be going through. Nobody is happy when his/her marriage ends. Some people see me outside and ask, ‘your marriage has ended, how do you feel?’ I will answer them that I am jumping up or how else do they expect me to feel? Nonsense! A comedian once said that ‘complete’ and ‘finish’ appear to have the same meaning but they are not the same. If you marry the right person, you are complete but if you marry the wrong person, you are finished.

Were you in love with him in the first place?
I got married to somebody who I was in love with. At that time, he also said he loved me. Unfortunately, the marriage ended too soon.
Why?

It was due to irreconcilable differences. It is not a thing of joy. I don’t think we should celebrate sadness and bad news. We should be more sensitive. No marriage should end but peradventure it does, don’t make a mockery of that person. You are not even mocking the person, you are mocking God.

Are you giving it another shot?
No! Me ke? Let us struggle first and make some money. In any case, I think I should marry a Chinese or an Indian. If many people agree that I should marry a Chinese, then I will go ahead. But a Japanese might be better. Japanese products are strong and reliable.


Is your ex-husband still your friend?
I don’t think you should call him my ‘ex-husband’ because we were together for less than one month. An ex- husband is somebody you marry and after three years or more, you separate. Anyway, I don’t know where he is. We have moved on.

Wasn’t the break-up your fault?
No. it wasn’t my fault. I can’t really say it was his fault too. It was just irreconcilable differences. We met and we were in love and we quickly got married. Maybe we got married too quickly but I have seen people who got married a month after they met and the marriage lasted. Our own didn’t work out. There is no need to apportion blame.
 

Posted: at 24-08-2014 06:01 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
- beneno at 24-08-2014 07:57 AM (9 years ago)
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Posted: at 24-08-2014 07:57 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- paulohking at 24-08-2014 09:11 AM (9 years ago)
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ehn ehn?
Posted: at 24-08-2014 09:11 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- daveobahon at 24-08-2014 09:19 AM (9 years ago)
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Posted: at 24-08-2014 09:19 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dynasty4all at 24-08-2014 09:32 AM (9 years ago)
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sorry my dear
u know ur people dont know what marriage is all about
they dont think b4 they go in
they think marriage is friendship
anyway never give up, ur miracle may be on the way
Posted: at 24-08-2014 09:32 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chidi4reala at 24-08-2014 09:45 AM (9 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 24-08-2014 09:45 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- DrSoba at 24-08-2014 10:03 AM (9 years ago)
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Hmnmm
Posted: at 24-08-2014 10:03 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- schmit at 24-08-2014 10:18 AM (9 years ago)
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Eeeeeya princess no mind d guy na gold  digger
Posted: at 24-08-2014 10:18 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- Elfredino at 24-08-2014 11:11 AM (9 years ago)
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Sowi love
Posted: at 24-08-2014 11:11 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dansato at 24-08-2014 11:47 AM (9 years ago)
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The Lord will bless you grant you all your heart desire
Posted: at 24-08-2014 11:47 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- zeigbo at 24-08-2014 01:16 PM (9 years ago)
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the guy came with hope say princess get money

Posted: at 24-08-2014 01:16 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- motherlove at 24-08-2014 02:02 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: zeigbo on 24-08-2014 01:16 PM
the guy came with hope say princess get money

Very correct
Posted: at 24-08-2014 02:02 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- cocoeni at 24-08-2014 02:32 PM (9 years ago)
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the guy na pure gold digger, im b think say has princess popular
for naija comedy show... na so money go plenty 4 bank account
 e show say na money love im be,,princess no worry God dey ur
 side....move on with ur life.
Posted: at 24-08-2014 02:32 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- koliano4me at 24-08-2014 03:10 PM (9 years ago)
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Life drama! Interfering and adviser cause the #irreconsilable.... Sorry
Posted: at 24-08-2014 03:10 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ainnylove at 24-08-2014 03:58 PM (9 years ago)
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Eeya, so sorry
Posted: at 24-08-2014 03:58 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 24-08-2014 07:27 PM (9 years ago)
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hunmnmnhn , marry an indian, chinese or japanese , na wa ooooooooooo
naija women don turn to a commodity ,
Posted: at 24-08-2014 07:27 PM (9 years ago) | Grande Master
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- zeigbo at 24-08-2014 10:42 PM (9 years ago)
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Posted: at 24-08-2014 10:42 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- x-avier at 25-08-2014 10:14 AM (9 years ago)
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Naija people and not answering questions.
In Nigeria "Brief Illness" is the greatest killer. It is even worse than ebola.
"Irreconcilable Difference" destroys more marriages than Port Harcourt, Lagos and Abuja big girls put together. 
I think our scientists should set up a research institute to demystify these phrases in order to save our lives, our hearts and our pockets from these dangerous phenomena.
Posted: at 25-08-2014 10:14 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ken1230 at 25-08-2014 01:33 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: zeigbo on 24-08-2014 01:16 PM
the guy came with hope say princess get money

True talk but the guy na gigolo.
Posted: at 25-08-2014 01:33 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chicco77 at 25-08-2014 05:37 PM (9 years ago)
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Posted: at 25-08-2014 05:37 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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