Must i marry her ? plz help me as i am in trouble

I met this girl when i came to Nigeria from Japan last 4 months,proposed to her for marriage and went to see her parent.After 1 month i left back the country i discovered that the Lady never pick or return my calls,if she tried to pick but only insults and abuse.I became confuse and seek for help,a friend of mine told me to send her some money which i did and since then she started calling me honey,sweety and love.Any month that i did not send money,she will not answer my calls nor call me back.

she was working and refused to disclose to me how much is her salary until she was sacked.

I have not paid for her dowry as she is stil living with her parents,the worst is that she is not a graduate,no handwork and from a very poor family background.she is 22 and the most senior in the family,others are not going to school because of financial handicap.

Please advise me if i am to continue with this marriage or not.She never call or visit my family ever since i left and does not care about them,she never listern to my advise or instructions and if i try to confront her she will ask me who am i to tell her what to do as she has her right to live her life.someone should advise me pls.My family has started to be against this relationship cuz of her behaviour.I am planing to come home by xmas to marry her but i am now confuse on what to do.i have sent her to school and now she is requesting me to rent a house for her in Lagos[/b][/b]

Posted: at 27-10-2009 05:15 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

My dear make hail y d sun shines RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

Posted: at 27-10-2009 09:32 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

poster instead of asking question if u will marry her u should  thank ur God that she display her attitude just on time so what again to u want, this one is no money no honey  she have told u that u missed the mark

Posted: at 27-10-2009 11:38 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

You can continue with her,if you can cope with a nagging wife.

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Posted: at 27-10-2009 04:57 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

LONG

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Posted: at 27-10-2009 05:21 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

hahahah mr poster the decision you seeking for is very simply.
you already know the type of woman she is....my question is can you cope with it?if no my dear go and look for another understanding,honest,never will think to use you,caring,loving and God fearing woman.Because these woman is just after your money,and don't care anything about you or your family or she care for is about your money and probably her family.
she will not be a good wife for you..excepts you already for her.she will only just useed you and later when you don't have money[broke]she will dump you like a piece of shit.

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Posted: at 27-10-2009 05:37 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

GBAM..........

Posted: at 27-10-2009 05:39 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

I AM FINE, AND WHY ARE U SHARING ME WITH SOMEONE ELSE

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Posted: at 27-10-2009 05:46 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

she doesnt really sound like a gud wife material.

however you can make do with the one by yourside in your above picture lol

Posted: at 27-10-2009 05:50 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

it was a mistake..it the work of the devil
na only you be my love

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Posted: at 27-10-2009 05:57 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero