Why do lovers try to change their patners? (Page 3)

Date: 29-10-2009 4:35 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Akpan Ekaite
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- simele at 31-10-2009 12:07 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 29-10-2009 04:35 PM
WHEN WE R IN LOVE AND WE GET TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP...WE START TREAN OUR PARTNER WE LIKE TO CHANGE THIS OR THAT ON  HIM OR HER...WHY IS THAT???WHEN WE FELL LOVE WE LOVE THE WAY IT IS..AFTER WHY WE START COMPLICATE AND WISH CHANGE HIM OR HER??IF WE LOVE THE PERSON BEFORE WHY WE WISH THOSE CHANGES??


I DON'T KNOW 0000000000
Posted: at 31-10-2009 12:07 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 31-10-2009 12:31 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 31-10-2009 08:35 AM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 29-10-2009 04:35 PM
WHEN WE R IN LOVE AND WE GET TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP...WE START TREAN OUR PARTNER WE LIKE TO CHANGE THIS OR THAT ON  HIM OR HER...WHY IS THAT???WHEN WE FELL LOVE WE LOVE THE WAY IT IS..AFTER WHY WE START COMPLICATE AND WISH CHANGE HIM OR HER??IF WE LOVE THE PERSON BEFORE WHY WE WISH THOSE CHANGES??


lol...somehow....we get too comfortable with things of our own that we want everything to change including them...and i think thats a selfish act...

AND U GOT AGAIN.. Cool Cool

Posted: at 31-10-2009 12:31 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 31-10-2009 03:01 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 29-10-2009 04:35 PM
WHEN WE R IN LOVE AND WE GET TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP...WE START TREAN OUR PARTNER WE LIKE TO CHANGE THIS OR THAT ON  HIM OR HER...WHY IS THAT???WHEN WE FELL LOVE WE LOVE THE WAY IT IS..AFTER WHY WE START COMPLICATE AND WISH CHANGE HIM OR HER??IF WE LOVE THE PERSON BEFORE WHY WE WISH THOSE CHANGES??

good question...i wonder why....for me...no way...i don't try to change any1..cos i don't like when some1 wants to change me Cool

Posted: at 31-10-2009 03:01 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 1-11-2009 01:14 AM (15 years ago)
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ur question makes sense. if am in a r/ship with a guy although, no one is perfect so if am wrong in anyway and if he tryna change me then i will only if its wil benefit the both of and d r/ship. It also shows that he had spend time to study the way i do things. and if he is bold enough to tell you about your mistakes, then your partner loves u for REAL.
Posted: at 1-11-2009 01:14 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 1-11-2009 01:20 AM (15 years ago)
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change as in money balance or what?

Posted: at 1-11-2009 01:20 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- just2sexy at 1-11-2009 01:25 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 29-10-2009 04:35 PM
WHEN WE R IN LOVE AND WE GET TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP...WE START TREAN OUR PARTNER WE LIKE TO CHANGE THIS OR THAT ON  HIM OR HER...WHY IS THAT???WHEN WE FELL LOVE WE LOVE THE WAY IT IS..AFTER WHY WE START COMPLICATE AND WISH CHANGE HIM OR HER??IF WE LOVE THE PERSON BEFORE WHY WE WISH THOSE CHANGES??

Abeg how u take pass english 4 waec?

Posted: at 1-11-2009 01:25 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- luvvy at 2-11-2009 11:10 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 29-10-2009 04:35 PM
WHEN WE R IN LOVE AND WE GET TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP...WE START TREAN OUR PARTNER WE LIKE TO CHANGE THIS OR THAT ON  HIM OR HER...WHY IS THAT???WHEN WE FELL LOVE WE LOVE THE WAY IT IS..AFTER WHY WE START COMPLICATE AND WISH CHANGE HIM OR HER??IF WE LOVE THE PERSON BEFORE WHY WE WISH THOSE CHANGES??

thinking if they can change i will love em more
Posted: at 2-11-2009 11:10 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 2-11-2009 11:31 AM (15 years ago)
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brb

Posted: at 2-11-2009 11:31 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 2-11-2009 12:43 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 31-10-2009 03:01 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 29-10-2009 04:35 PM
WHEN WE R IN LOVE AND WE GET TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP...WE START TREAN OUR PARTNER WE LIKE TO CHANGE THIS OR THAT ON  HIM OR HER...WHY IS THAT???WHEN WE FELL LOVE WE LOVE THE WAY IT IS..AFTER WHY WE START COMPLICATE AND WISH CHANGE HIM OR HER??IF WE LOVE THE PERSON BEFORE WHY WE WISH THOSE CHANGES??

good question...i wonder why....for me...no way...i don't try to change any1..cos i don't like when some1 wants to change me Cool
the same here..take me as i am...if i love some1 i love the mistakes as well no1 is perfect Wink

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:43 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 2-11-2009 12:44 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: just2sexy on  1-11-2009 01:25 AM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 29-10-2009 04:35 PM
WHEN WE R IN LOVE AND WE GET TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP...WE START TREAN OUR PARTNER WE LIKE TO CHANGE THIS OR THAT ON  HIM OR HER...WHY IS THAT???WHEN WE FELL LOVE WE LOVE THE WAY IT IS..AFTER WHY WE START COMPLICATE AND WISH CHANGE HIM OR HER??IF WE LOVE THE PERSON BEFORE WHY WE WISH THOSE CHANGES??

Abeg how u take pass english 4 waec?
I NO WANNA SHOW GRAMMA..IF U LIKE I GO SHOW U MY BOOK I WROTE..U FIT BUY IT?

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:44 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 2-11-2009 12:51 PM (15 years ago)
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hmmmmmm

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:51 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Akpan01 at 2-11-2009 12:52 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on  2-11-2009 12:51 PM
hmmmmmm
U DON START??HOW FAR??LONG TIME

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:52 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SexyJuly at 2-11-2009 01:02 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 29-10-2009 04:35 PM
WHEN WE R IN LOVE AND WE GET TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP...WE START TREAN OUR PARTNER WE LIKE TO CHANGE THIS OR THAT ON  HIM OR HER...WHY IS THAT???WHEN WE FELL LOVE WE LOVE THE WAY IT IS..AFTER WHY WE START COMPLICATE AND WISH CHANGE HIM OR HER??IF WE LOVE THE PERSON BEFORE WHY WE WISH THOSE CHANGES??


Mayb cos we want our partners to be the perfect match for us, trying to adjust some habits n characters to suit each other. Moreover, seeing one for the first time doesnt mean he/she is the right match.
Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:02 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blings_is_back at 2-11-2009 01:10 PM (15 years ago)
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am i to answer dis?
Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:10 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 2-11-2009 01:12 PM (15 years ago)
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U NO FIT?

Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:12 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 2-11-2009 01:12 PM (15 years ago)
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HEYYY OSI ,,,,,, U CHANGE THE NAME OF MY TOPIC???

Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:12 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SexyJuly at 2-11-2009 01:15 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on  2-11-2009 01:10 PM
am i to answer dis?

Its not a do-or-die thing.
Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:15 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 2-11-2009 01:16 PM (15 years ago)
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EHEM TELL AM SIS

Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:16 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SexyJuly at 2-11-2009 01:25 PM (15 years ago)
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maybe this medium no go help, i'll rather go through BBC! Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:25 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 2-11-2009 01:30 PM (15 years ago)
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EHEHHEHEHE NA SO

Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:30 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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