Reasons You Should Never Fake An Orgasm

Date: 10-02-2015 9:34 am (7 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
- at 10-02-2015 09:34 AM (7 years ago)
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Sex can be great… until the times when it’s not so great. When you’re stuck in a hookup that just isn’t doing it for you, it can seem like there’s only one way out of there: faking an orgasm. You don’t want to hurt the dude’s feelings, you want the experience to be over with sometimes, it feels like it just makes sense.

But here’s the thing: it’s not a good idea to fake an orgasm. I know it seems convenient and harmless and I guess if you’re only going to do it once with someone you never want to see again, it’s not the end of the world. But in general, it’s only going to do more harm than good. Tempted to take the easy way out? Then read these 7 reasons why you should never fake an orgasm:

1. You're Not Doing Yourself Any Favors
Obviously, faking an orgasm isn't really doing any good for you. All it's doing is preventing you from actually having an orgasm. If you feel like it's just not going to happen no matter what, tell the dude. Explain that it's nothing he's doing, you're just distracted/tired/stressed, whatever. Sex isn't going to work perfectly every time and that's okay. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

2. It's Kind Of Mean
Let's turn the tables. Imagine you found out that the dude you've been hooking up with who you've been thinking you're seriously pleasing has been faking it most of the time. Ouch. Wouldn't that be a huge blow to your ego? Well, now think about how your guy would feel if he figured out you faked an orgasm. Pretty crappy. It's better to be honest then to lie, especially when it comes to sex stuff.

3. It Might Cause A Bigger Issue
faking an orgasm can really mess up your head.  It really damages your segxwal self-worth; eventually, you'll start to think that you can't have an orgasm, and you'll wind up feeling like something's wrong with you.  I know you don't want that to happen. Although it might sound like a stretch, it's still possible, so it's best not to make faking it a habit.

4. You Could Be Ruining Future Orgasms
Seriously, you're really not doing yourself any favors here. Faking one orgasm can lead to faking a lot of orgasms. If a guy thinks whatever he was doing felt that good, guess what? He's going to keep doing it. And then what are you going to do? Pretend it only felt that good that one time? Or fake more? It's an endless cycle, girls.

5. It Could Be About Trust Issues
faking it could mean something bigger than just trying to make a guy feel good: it could be a sign that you don't really trust him. Not necessarily to hold on to hir , but because you don't trust him enough to really be able to let go and have an orgasm." If you feel like you're seriously having trouble orgasming, this could totally be true and it's definitely something to think about.

6. You Deserve An Orgasm!
In the end, the main thing is this: you deserve a real orgasm, not a fake one. If what your guy is doing isn't working for you, have him try doing something else (maybe while eating, licking and sucking your honey pot, he should as well fondle, caress your nipples) . You don't have to be like, "Oh man, that feels horrible." Just instruct him to do something you know feels good. You should never feel like you need to act like everything he does is amazing - you deserve to have good sex also!

Have you ever faked an orgasm? Do you do it a lot? Do you think it’s a big deal? Have you ever met a guy who faked it? Tell us in the comments. Cheesy


Posted: at 10-02-2015 09:34 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- divineproject at 10-02-2015 11:59 AM (7 years ago)
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Lalolo! I am a virgin biko.............waka pass

Posted: at 10-02-2015 11:59 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 15-02-2015 07:55 PM (7 years ago)
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lol,this kinda talk,dont mind claiming a v too just like dp Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 15-02-2015 07:55 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 15-02-2015 08:27 PM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 15-02-2015 07:55 PM
lol,this kinda talk,dont mind claiming a v too just like dp Cheesy Cheesy
hnmmmmmmm

Posted: at 15-02-2015 08:27 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 15-02-2015 08:42 PM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 15-02-2015 08:27 PM
hnmmmmmmm
Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 15-02-2015 08:42 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 15-02-2015 09:29 PM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 15-02-2015 08:42 PM
Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Posted: at 15-02-2015 09:29 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 15-02-2015 10:19 PM (7 years ago)
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 Grin
Posted: at 15-02-2015 10:19 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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