CAN U GO BACK 2 UR FORMER LOV DAT LEFT U 4 A RICHER MAN WHEN U HAD NOTHING

it depends though...besides hitting her...have u ever hurt her in any other way...like cheating behind her back and she found out or embrassed her or anything like that....maybe it might contribute to the reasons that made her to leave u at the first place...adding on to ur hiiting her....

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Posted: at 23-08-2007 05:46 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

It is not done any where to go backto someone that as been going out with someone as old as her dad and someone that is rich, men i tell you she will stall go back to that kind of people. so i can not forgive her at all.

Posted: at 28-08-2007 06:10 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Hitting a girl is not the end of the world. They will one day get hit by another girl or another guy. If you agree that when a kid does wrong they should be hit in correction as in "spear the rod and spoil the child" same goes for everyone.

"I do not condone violence, and that is a violent act" but does not mean you should feel so guilty and not do right.

You hit the bitch 'cause she was a cheat, a lying little cow that will sleep with the next guy that says he's rich.
You hit her because you are also a lying little dog that goes after anything in pants and skirts.

If you love her, you need to train her and both of you get back together and start building yourself a new life.
You have both played the field and are ready to settle down.

Training stems from true love. It is the ability to accept both your failures and determination not to hurt each other as you will be stuck together forever.

O boy, I think you no really love this girl, co's if you did, she, the rich guy and you for just dey finish WWIII.

Dont give up what you love especially your wife, family bearer, mother of the nation and next generation. So that you can look politically correct? Men!!! anybody mess with my wife, I go turn gay on his ass. That time, I go really know if she really be my future, or na just another actress wey think my life na theater stage.

Else dont hang on to what is not yours. The future can be changed, not the past. YOU CAN ALWAYS DO BETTER.

Posted: at 30-08-2007 02:38 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

well democrazy.....that was a good one.....

but about the hitting thing,it applies to kids but not adults....men should never ever lay a finger on a woman....it makes the woman to lose her self respect....anyways i am not supporting anybody....but of course if that gal comes back to the guy coz of the money it ain't worth it coz she still will go back to the other guy when the money finish....so......there it goes.....but the guy should also take this as a lesson in life where he needs to control his woman but not to the extent of hitting her.....this is just my point of view....

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Posted: at 30-08-2007 03:16 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I think it is safe to assume that we all know that hitting a woman is wrong.

For me, it is also wrong to hit a kid. I belief this is something masters do to slaves, and we take it as our tradition/culture. So i mentioned "spare the rod and spoil the child" which is one thing we accept and is also wrong. I mainly sought refuge in this statement as words become cumbersome trying to explain the hurt and pain anyone goes through after they find they are being cheated on. Instant reactions can be forgiven if we really try and understand the damage that is caused.

This guy is now thinking should i have her back or not. For a while his life will be on hold, and all for what. She made a mistake? can I be punished for making a mistake? Punished how?

Herre, I have never hit my woman, nor my kid. With talking and using your love to create fun or work can get so much done within a relationship.  Beating a woman is not a choice I partake in.


 

Posted: at 30-08-2007 03:44 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Not on her life. But to me it makes more sense than her hooking up with someone lower than me in obvious ways walahi!

Posted: at 23-11-2007 06:47 PM (16 years ago) | Hero

2face

Posted: at 12-01-2008 01:18 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

i see

Posted: at 16-01-2008 01:20 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

see sam

Posted: at 16-01-2008 04:51 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hickory daw

Posted: at 21-01-2008 03:04 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac