Should You Share Your segxwal Past with Your Husband? (Page 2)

Its nothing really, depends on whether u actually married ur friend, not some money bag u re not close to. We shared all and beliv me its no bother at all. it kind of glued us 2gether more bcos we have same experiences, we hav seen it all. IT ALL DEPENDS ON UR MIND SET!

Posted: at 7-12-2009 12:50 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Word Sobby!

Posted: at 7-12-2009 01:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

better not said

Posted: at 7-12-2009 01:25 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

What goes around comes around. Word goes around and comes around. Better to arm the one U love with the knowledge before hand cos they will eventually find themselves confronting Ur past directly or indirectly... unless of course U both choose to go live on mars.

I'd rather know everything and choose whether I can live with it than find out there are keletons in her closet I will rather not live with.

Lets paint the picture like this, Christ refers to His Church as His bride and likens our relationship with God to the rleationship a man and his wife should have. Now can anyone enjoy the salvation from sin and death that comes through Christ without necessarily confessing his/her sins? Can there be forgiveness where there has been no confession? Will love not speak for those who care and are bold enough to say this is what I have done wrong?

Lets not fool ourselves. We need to be responsible for the choices we make and lve the one's that love us enuogh to be naked with them and not ashamed. i can paint lots of scenrios where silence would do more damage in this instance than speaking up would.

Everyman that gets married believes in himself that he has choosen the best. He wants to keep believing that even when he can see his flaws.

Now I know most girls would say they want an experienced man (and with all due respect I think they say so in their simplicity of mind and lack of foresight), Some boys would say same. At the end of the day if u can, when they are old, find out from such people if they still like that they married the "experienced lover" and wouldnt have preferd to have lived quite, patiently grooming the inexperienced one to become the 'perfect' lover having realised the s*it load that came with the experienced one they didnt expect.

Posted: at 7-12-2009 02:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Not everything we like is best for us. Tho a man myt not want to hear such rubbish initially it would be better he hears it from U than from someone else cos hear it he surely will. The walls have ears and bad news travels fastest.

Posted: at 7-12-2009 02:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

As u arrange correct like this for this ya picture na em u just wan pass? My guy vibrate on the topic jor...

Posted: at 7-12-2009 02:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

tell it to the birds lol

Posted: at 20-07-2012 12:36 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie

      so, we all claim to be virgins ?. why wouldn't we be shamed of our past  life ?, let alone telling our partner about ur past life since we have refused to fear & listen to God ?
have u ever see a pure virgin who is not pride to tell his/her partner abt virginity ?
UR PRIDE IS UR VIRGINITY.
since u are not ashamed of loosing ur virginity, dnt be ashame of telling ur partner abt ur past life bc God who sees our secret knows our in & out. Just be a change person & learn how to be faithful to God on ur own.

Posted: at 20-07-2012 11:38 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie

there is no need keep

Posted: at 20-07-2012 03:02 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming