My child’s father and I have been in a relationship for almost five years.
We met sophomore year of college. He was fresh out of a break up with his high school sweetheart (who was known for sleeping around with girls). They were the ”it” couple.
They d been dating since they were 13 years old, when suddenly they broke up. That meant he was on the market. So, I basically threw myself at him, and him being a guy he jumped at my offer. While he made it clear in the beginning that he and his ex had history and if she ever wanted him back he would end our tryst. So, me not wanting to give up the d**k got pregnant.
We began a relationship and I noticed he was very distant and not as lovey as I had seen him with his ex, so I began searching emails, text etc. And, everyday these two were communicating telling one another how much they love each other and they’re gonna be together one day when I’m outta the picture.
Well, apparently that was true because I went into labor the day before her birthday and he showed up six hours late because he was at her party (she didn’t even know I was in labor).
Fast forward a few years. I’m still snooping and I keep finding pics of him and her, recent ones at that, in his phone. They text at least 150 messages a day. He spends holidays with her, buys her expensive gifts, and I can’t even get a birthday card. He is a great father to my daughter, but a lousy boyfriend to me.
I feel second best, and when I confronted him about his behavior he replied, I’ve known Jamie (let’s call her that) since I was 6 years old. I’ve loved her ever since elementary school and it’s not going away. She will always have my heart. Somehow, I just got stuck with you.
I’ve never been so hurt! But, I guess a part of me was asking to be hurt. This woman has a hold on him and she can call him at 5am for fast food and he’s gonna get it. I love him but he doesn’t love me. I depend on him for everything. I dropped out of school to have our daughter, and he’s the one with the career!!! What the hell am I gonna do?
Part of me wants to kill his ex. Part of me knows it’s all my fault. He flaunts his love for her in my face and it’s killing me. How would you all handle the situation? Please Help! I Want My Man
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Posted: at 3-10-2015 07:34 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
larrychuckz at 3-10-2015 07:50 AM (9 years ago) (m)
Go find ur man n leave her man alone
Posted: at 3-10-2015 07:50 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Abeg carry this nonsense post comment from my front this early morning.if u no wan give up the dick,then face the music played by the dick by your self.
Posted: at 3-10-2015 07:52 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
My sister you have no excuse whatsoever. He who prays for rain must be prepared for the mud. You better put your a t in perspective. Go back home and continue with your education and accept the fact that you are a single parent
Posted: at 3-10-2015 08:45 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
While he made it clear in the beginning that he and his ex had history and if she ever wanted him back he would end our tryst. So, me not wanting to give up the d**k got pregnant.
So why are you crying foul now? . Girls and their fish brain. You got pregnant to hold a man down, who ever told you that works?. My dear, u are jux another babymama
Posted: at 3-10-2015 08:48 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
Pls stop insulting urself and get a life! He's nt urs and will never be, so leave the man alone to enjoy his life with the he loves...do the honourable thing and quietly quit, his not yours.
Posted: at 3-10-2015 10:02 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
china4jessy at 3-10-2015 12:14 PM (9 years ago) (f)
You knew right from the onset that the man has his hearthrob and you threw in yourself by getting pregnant for him trying to take what does not belong to you by force, it does not work like that.
Posted: at 3-10-2015 12:14 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dickieponga at 3-10-2015 05:38 PM (9 years ago) (m)
"So, I basically threw myself at him, and him being a guy he jumped at my offer. While he made it clear in the beginning that he and his ex had history and if she ever wanted him back he would end our tryst. So, me not wanting to give up the d**k got pregnant.......Part of me wants to kill his ex. Part of me knows it’s all my fault..." Dis is wat u said so why ask us for advice wen u no d ansa... Kill him na and spend d rest of ur life in jail.... U picked him knowing d circumstances surrounding him...U were just obsessed and u tot getting pregnant wuld draw him closer to u and eventually he will be wit u.... U r a FOOL, am glad he was honest wit u from d start.. Dis is wat u get for being stupid... Infact why r u telling us anyway...?
Posted: at 3-10-2015 05:38 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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