I Trained Her In School Only To Lose Her To An American Returnee This Xmas - Gistmanian

Date: 29-12-2015 9:36 am (8 years ago) | Author: kaygee
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- at 29-12-2015 09:36 AM (8 years ago)
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read the lamentation of a gistmanian who felt betrayed by a lady he love, what will you do guys if you find yourself in his shoe?
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My name is Paulinus and I am a very sad man at the moment because a woman I loved with the whole of my heart and gave everything for, hurt me so very much and almost i dont think i can trust any woman again

I met Chinyere when she was just a secondary school leaver. I had gone home during the Christmas celebration that year after serving my boss for seven years and was now a business owner in Lagos.
Though I did not go to school, I was determined that my wife must be educated and I made sure Chinyere got admission into a university in the Eastern part of the country. I had done the wine carrying introduction and was only waiting for her to round up her studies when she showed me the true colour of a woman.
I had planned with my family to set in motion preparations for our wedding in the New Year but that was not to be because by the time I got home, I was given the shock of my life.
When I went to their house to visit with them, I noticed that the usual welcome I got was not there. I could not see my fiancee that day as I was told she had gone out with her friends.
For one full week, I did not see Chinyere until a cousin informed me that she was actually staying with a young man who had come back from America. I was able to trace her to the man's place. And true to what I heard, Chinyere was with the man and told me clearly that I should stop looking for her as she was with her fiance.
The man himself told me he was appreciative of what I did for his 'wife' and I should give him a breakdown of all I spent so that he would pay me back.
Since then, I have been in shock and I don't know what to do. It seems like my life is gone. Why would a woman have the mind to hurt someone this much?
Paulinus,
Lagos."


Posted: at 29-12-2015 09:36 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Novic at 29-12-2015 09:48 AM (8 years ago)
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That is why i can never fall so much for a girl or spend so much on her. Gurls of nowaday are like this, at the end they we just turn u dwn.
Posted: at 29-12-2015 09:48 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- olowoinlionsden at 29-12-2015 09:56 AM (8 years ago)
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Welcome to Biafra Republic. Old boy, collect very hard currency from the man to compensate  for your trouble. Forget about the bitch and go on with your life.
Posted: at 29-12-2015 09:56 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Haso112 at 29-12-2015 09:58 AM (8 years ago)
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Sorry ooo Paulinus..  Abeg try give that guy breakdown of every dime you spent ooo, as he has asked, make you know lose on both sides ooo. That kind girl ain't even worth giving yourself a slight headache about. She's the perfect definition of a "loser" and as for the dude, he'll soon be swimming in a pool of regrets. And to your question "Why would a woman have the heart to hurt someone so much? " She's human and the world is "Losing faith in humanity, one person at a time" You got served dude, move on, she was never yours.
Posted: at 29-12-2015 09:58 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- satsaver at 29-12-2015 10:07 AM (8 years ago)
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Hmm reads like Nigerian film to me but women sef.... why them they always forget their little beginning. Bro Paul Pls tk heart.. it's a gonna be really though bro.Hard luck...We feel ur plight it's saddening.
Posted: at 29-12-2015 10:07 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DemmyBlack at 29-12-2015 10:08 AM (8 years ago)
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Brother you're so dumb, you didn't go to school but you determined to marry a graduate. Naaa go back to school and run ur business simultaneously.
Posted: at 29-12-2015 10:08 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- satsaver at 29-12-2015 10:23 AM (8 years ago)
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Hmm reads like Nigerian film to me but women sef.... why them they always forget their little beginning. Bro Paul Pls tk heart.. it's  gonna be really rough bro.Hard luck...We feel ur plight it's saddening.I don't know if the payback is gonna end this plight for you.. when u payed her fees u never did them for paybacks bt for love.. I don't think u should be compensated with the money her new fiance is talking abt.. for me I suggest u don't take no money from him..there are still good women out there..maybe she's not the Woman God has destined for u..Imagine u married her then she acts worse than now.. tk heart...I know God has destined a far more better wife for you. Godbless!
Posted: at 29-12-2015 10:23 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- zezprincess at 29-12-2015 10:30 AM (8 years ago)
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Sorry guy,that's life for you.the same thing happened to me,A guy that proposed to me,along the line,he has a set back in his business,Na so yours truly cos of love emptied my accout give to the man,today de man never marry me,he told me say him people no go like me cos I come from Imo state.So my G,Try&forget her,know it is not easy,God wey give coconut water go give you better wife,Goodluck.
Posted: at 29-12-2015 10:30 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- gogoman at 29-12-2015 10:30 AM (8 years ago)
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fool of the highest order!! so u no go school, but u fit send woman go school.. how does that make any sense, u monkey brain, why she no poison u join .. yeye boy
Posted: at 29-12-2015 10:30 AM (8 years ago) | Grande Master
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- kp45 at 29-12-2015 10:39 AM (8 years ago)
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Touching story but Mr. Paulinus you gave too much and expect too much though its very bad for what she did. If you ask me I will say her love for you was conditional.
Posted: at 29-12-2015 10:39 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Giftous1 at 29-12-2015 10:40 AM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: mr gogo on 29-12-2015 10:30 AM
fool of the highest order!! so u no go school, but u fit send woman go school.. how does that make any sense, u monkey brain, why she no poison u join .. yeye boy

you ehn...pathetic!!!!
Posted: at 29-12-2015 10:40 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Oworen25 at 29-12-2015 11:09 AM (8 years ago)
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This happens to twenty to thirty per cent of the men they think that they are in love whenever any woman come across them not knowing it camouflage love, most of them go as far as paying for their tuition fees like this young man and at last the woman go on and marry another man. It always painful.
Posted: at 29-12-2015 11:09 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- Novic at 29-12-2015 11:13 AM (8 years ago)
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That is why i can never fall so much for a girl or spend so much on her. Gurls of nowaday are like this, at the end they we just turn u dwn.
Posted: at 29-12-2015 11:13 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- gogoman at 29-12-2015 11:31 AM (8 years ago)
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@Giftous1 , if you no shut up your mouth there... if that happens to ur blood brother how would u feel?
Posted: at 29-12-2015 11:31 AM (8 years ago) | Grande Master
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- mensch at 29-12-2015 12:02 PM (8 years ago)
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1. you are stupid to do that for a woman.
2. as far as the new guy promise to pay you all you spent back, better do so and move on
for many girl are out there.
3. life gos on.
Posted: at 29-12-2015 12:02 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ayodun1 at 29-12-2015 12:04 PM (8 years ago)
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Eeyah..... Same Paulinus ?

Posted: at 29-12-2015 12:04 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ngfineface at 29-12-2015 01:13 PM (8 years ago)
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I empathize with your situation. However, you just would have gotten yourself a basic education in addition to your business rather than chase shadows. Women can marry a nonentity that has money but in your own case, you are not educated and yet struggling to make money.I also do not blame the girl so much. She also want her life and that of her family to change. Such is life for you. Take heart and be wise 
Posted: at 29-12-2015 01:13 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- beautysharp at 29-12-2015 01:21 PM (8 years ago)
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Gone are the days of training women in school, forget the girl and Forge ahead your better half you will soon see
Posted: at 29-12-2015 01:21 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- botlex at 29-12-2015 01:23 PM (8 years ago)
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I don't know when our guys will learn. Rule number one: never do for a girl that which you cant afford to loose. Rule number two: never forget rule number one. I'm not a misogynist, mind u...
Posted: at 29-12-2015 01:23 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- youngrashy at 29-12-2015 01:42 PM (8 years ago)
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Fabricated story,Don't believe anything you read on social media
Posted: at 29-12-2015 01:42 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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