confused....

Date: 16-01-2010 4:48 pm (14 years ago) | Author: hannah lara
- at 16-01-2010 04:48 PM (14 years ago)
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I am presently out of nigeria and i started dating someone who has a relationship with a lady back home in nigeria. we were 3 month into the relationship before i got to know about it. he told me he was engaged and he could not hide it from me anymore, he told me he was not ready to let go of me cos he was in love with me. i did not leaver him cos i was already head over heels with him...we are almost 2 years now and we are getting better and more attached to each other. the big problem is, he has a very honest way of seeing thngs cos he is still in touch with the lady and they talk to each other everyday....I am co confused on either leaving him to face a my life before i get to attached with him or waiting and hoping something favourable might happen. He is my perfect kind of guy...do u think i should run or hold on? Undecided

Posted: at 16-01-2010 04:48 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- dirtykid at 16-01-2010 04:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Kinda complicated, but first remember he told u already he is engaged with another lady, he was fair enough to tell u the truth earlier as 3 months into the relationship... good credit means he's nice guy, some will hide it away from u.

Are u hoping of Marriage with him in future? when he didnt propse or engage to u? If thats wht is in ur dream or wish.

But advise  to u is give the guy a space, i mean real meters away from the relationship soonest, if u re actually hoping for settling down with him, then watch out if he really means his Love that he told u already. I believe with this u will get to know ur next step to follow.

Gdluck.
Posted: at 16-01-2010 04:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ogunfunmi at 17-01-2010 08:53 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: spyme on 16-01-2010 04:48 PM
I am presently out of nigeria and i started dating someone who has a relationship with a lady back home in nigeria. we were 3 month into the relationship before i got to know about it. he told me he was engaged and he could not hide it from me anymore, he told me he was not ready to let go of me cos he was in love with me. i did not leaver him cos i was already head over heels with him...we are almost 2 years now and we are getting better and more attached to each other. the big problem is, he has a very honest way of seeing thngs cos he is still in touch with the lady and they talk to each other everyday....I am co confused on either leaving him to face a my life before i get to attached with him or waiting and hoping something favourable might happen. He is my perfect kind of guy...do u think i should run or hold on? Undecided
Lips Sealed just pass
Posted: at 17-01-2010 08:53 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 17-01-2010 09:02 AM (14 years ago)
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crossing
Posted: at 17-01-2010 09:02 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- gfactor at 20-02-2010 04:00 PM (14 years ago)
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he has done well by tellin u of his engagemnt wit anoda gal so do ur own part and free d guy 2 prvnt future hat brk
Posted: at 20-02-2010 04:00 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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