Do you believe Nigerians are not romantic people by nature???

 >:(I have traveled extensively to see love and romance in action. I must confess that my parents loved me but did not demonstrate that love by their kisses and vocal expression of their love to me. It is easy to notice also that Nigerians do not kiss enough or romance enough. Women notices this better than the men.  Is it culture or selfishness? Why cant’s most Nigerians take some time to warm up a car before we drive it if you know what I mean?

Posted: at 17-01-2010 09:31 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

U make sense there jare.. i dont know actually what to call that.

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Posted: at 18-01-2010 01:36 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

hey don't generalize stuffs like that... it has to do with the individuals.
besides u 'll also find so many unromantic (abeg no mind the grammar) couples in those areas u ve traveled to.

having said that, i ll agree with u in some little ways though, cos i think maybe its the traditions or religion that made most Nigerians so frigid when it comes to matters like that...... but we the new generations re breaking free from all that now.

Posted: at 18-01-2010 05:11 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

Is not true... 70% of them are world title holders on bedmatic issue, I cn guarantee you that most of the girls are like log of wood on the bed, that sucks allot........... If you tell me most of the Men, don't know how to pet you with all those kisses and hugs even when Sex is not suppose to take place, I can agree with you.

But don't forget that you girls always pretend so much when the guys want to start engaging most of you, like to kiss and hug you around, the first place una mind dey go na Sex, you will first starting thinking he wants to have sex with you thats why he's hugging you around, I don't want to remind you that you will not accept to kiss him on the street or open places if he request for one.

So who is to blame ??

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Posted: at 6-06-2011 08:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

every man is different and every woman is different..................every one shows love and affection in different ways, my father once in awhile did it by surprising my mother with a well cooked meal and much more. kissing every 5seconds might be one way of showing affection but not the only way of showing it. Nigerians are different and do things diffferently,we are for the most part private individuals, and dont need to show the world how we feel about our spouse we only need our spouse to know how much we love them because to most Nigerians thats what really counts. I travel a lot and different cultures around the world have their own ways but as for my Naija brothers no one can touch them when they truly love a woman

Posted: at 6-06-2011 08:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

u r correct

Posted: at 6-06-2011 09:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero