How To Discipline Your Wife According To Islamic Laws - Muslim Therapists Teaches

Date: 23-04-2016 9:56 pm (8 years ago) | Author: Mister Jay Wonder
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A Saudi family therapist has released a video on the 'correct way' for Muslims to 'discipline their wives' - but advised doing so using a toothpick or handkerchief.

Khaled Al-Saqaby released the footage earlier this year and admitted on camera it was a 'thorny' issue, adding: 'Allah willing, we will cross this bridge safely'.

Mr Al-Saqaby urges men not to physically abuse their wives but pursue three courses of action should they need 'discipline' - first talk to them, then 'forsake them in bed' and finally beat them.

He said wives 'undoubtedly' caused problems because many 'want to live a life of equality with their husbands', which is a 'very grave problem'.

Sitting in an unknown woodland location, he explains why men may need to discipline their wives but outlines how to do it safely and according to Islam.

In the video, he says: 'I am aware that this issue is a thorny one which contains many hazards, but Allah willing we will cross this bridge safely.

'I believe the problem arises when husbands do not understand how to deal with disobedience. Some women disobey their husbands and make mistakes with them, and their husbands think this is due to inadequate treatment [of disobedience].'

He added: 'The first step is to remind her of your rights and of her duties according to Allah. Then comes the second step - forsaking her in bed.

'Here some husbands make mistakes which might exacerbate the problem.'

Mr Al-Saqaby goes on to explain how men should remain sharing a bed with their wives but turn their back on them, rather than one of the couple sleeping in a different room or on the floor.


Saudi family therapist Khaled Al-Saqaby, pictured, released a video advising husbands on how to 'properly discipline their disobedient wives'


He said women 'undoubtedly' cause problems and in some cases provoke their husbands to hit them


Mr Al-Saqaby says beating should be the last resort and is not to 'vent one's anger' but to impose discipline


He added necessary conditions must be met and that it should be done with a sewak tooth stick or a handkerchief

He said: 'As a woman once told me, this is the most ingenious way to discipline a wife. If the husband leaves the room it is easier for her than if he remains but turns his back to her or if he sleeps on the floor or vice versa.'

Finally comes physical action, although Mr Al-Saqaby stresses it should not be a way for a husband to 'vent one's anger'.



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Posted: at 23-04-2016 09:56 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- kison at 23-04-2016 10:24 PM (8 years ago)
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JUST ASK GOD FOR ONE MORE TRY....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxl3GlHhJ9I..... JUST be careful, be very very careful, CAREFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL...
Posted: at 23-04-2016 10:24 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- Passion8Soul at 23-04-2016 10:25 PM (8 years ago)
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Every bein should b very careful;dnt give way 2 d devil 2 feed in ur family
Posted: at 23-04-2016 10:25 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Eazyatumeyi at 23-04-2016 10:33 PM (8 years ago)
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hmm seriously? its surprising and quonjical o
Posted: at 23-04-2016 10:33 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- morgrawl231 at 23-04-2016 10:38 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Aishat Ejura Aikoye on 23-04-2016 10:25 PM
Every bein should b very careful;dnt give way 2 d devil 2 feed in ur family
Posted: at 23-04-2016 10:38 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- morgrawl231 at 23-04-2016 10:40 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: teejay on 23-04-2016 10:38 PM

Na so,,,,who even get time 4 all dos shinrenren,,,
Posted: at 23-04-2016 10:40 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- zoe61 at 23-04-2016 11:20 PM (8 years ago)
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nawa oooo
Posted: at 23-04-2016 11:20 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- AmazingMarie at 23-04-2016 11:31 PM (8 years ago)
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eheen is that so?
Posted: at 23-04-2016 11:31 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- gogoman at 23-04-2016 11:49 PM (8 years ago)
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mmmmmmm cool
Posted: at 23-04-2016 11:49 PM (8 years ago) | Grande Master
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- cmionsisy at 24-04-2016 01:06 AM (8 years ago)
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forsake her in bed....4 phyuk sake a Muslim man forsake sex buhari must hear dis
Posted: at 24-04-2016 01:06 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dickieponga at 24-04-2016 01:09 AM (8 years ago)
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Eventually e still talk say make una beat una wife, which is violence....
Me i no fit beat Ekaette cos nobody pokes me like she does....
Posted: at 24-04-2016 01:09 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 24-04-2016 01:33 AM (8 years ago)
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 Tongue
Posted: at 24-04-2016 01:33 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- Barca007 at 24-04-2016 02:23 AM (8 years ago)
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Hey you people don start another problem, OK oh
Posted: at 24-04-2016 02:23 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- maizaxx at 24-04-2016 07:08 AM (8 years ago)
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I'm sorry but you've lost me. I beg he should stop being vague and give us a clearer picture. Is it right to beat my wife or not?
Secondly what happens if na me be the problem ho is the wife to address the problem?
Posted: at 24-04-2016 07:08 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dickieponga at 24-04-2016 04:19 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Maitala Amos Zakariya on 24-04-2016 07:08 AM
I'm sorry but you've lost me. I beg he should stop being vague and give us a clearer picture. Is it right to beat my wife or not?
Secondly what happens if na me be the problem ho is the wife to address the problem?
Good point, but dem no go talk about d man cos dem blive say man fit do anytin to im wife which is rubbish....
Posted: at 24-04-2016 04:19 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- Wealthmide at 24-04-2016 08:06 PM (8 years ago)
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nawa ooo, may God just have mercy ooo...
Posted: at 24-04-2016 08:06 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- franklinseyea at 25-04-2016 11:55 AM (8 years ago)
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Wasted Generation!!!
Posted: at 25-04-2016 11:55 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Sparky12 at 25-04-2016 10:43 PM (8 years ago)
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kk... lyf goes on
Posted: at 25-04-2016 10:43 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kison at 28-04-2016 08:43 PM (8 years ago)
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JUST Be careful, be very very careful,CAREFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL...
Posted: at 28-04-2016 08:43 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- kison at 28-04-2016 08:43 PM (8 years ago)
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JUST Be careful, be very very careful,CAREFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL...
Posted: at 28-04-2016 08:43 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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