i have a friend. we've been together for six years now. she has been with her boyfriend for four years. her boyfriend is from a poor background and he's a student, no job. she's also a student, but from a rich family. the first time she bought him a shirt, he reluctantly collected it, telling her that he did not like collecting gifts from ladies. now, he collects things from her at freewill, requests for money from her. she's getting worried, because she loves him and thinks he's just after her money. what do you think about that?
Posted: at 17-08-2008 08:48 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
philomena87 at 17-08-2008 08:54 PM (15 years ago) (f)
let her try neglectin in givin him money for a while and u will see hell of wat he will say.. and then u will know wats up... and try watch a nigerian movie in case u have not watched it... titled... ROMEO... its connected to tat u will sense things thru...
Posted: at 17-08-2008 08:54 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
This is a case of the rich girl and her poor boyfriend. He will always want money from her, its up to her to find out if its money he's after or her love.
Posted: at 17-08-2008 09:05 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
i have a friend. we've been together for six years now. she has been with her boyfriend for four years. her boyfriend is from a poor background and he's a student, no job. she's also a student, but from a rich family. the first time she bought him a shirt, he reluctantly collected it, telling her that he did not like collecting gifts from ladies. now, he collects things from her at freewill, requests for money from her. she's getting worried, because she loves him and thinks he's just after her money. what do you think about that?
He's gotten too comfortable now..at first he was kinda trying to feel her out and see how she'll accept it, and now that he's got her where he wants.............he ain't got no shame any longer. Plz advice your friend to bounce cuz he's using her now.
Posted: at 17-08-2008 09:05 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
lt's the same thing as in d case of a Rich guy Poor girl
At first, accepting gifts will be done reluctantly and the person will be getting used to it as time goes on
D reason he's asking too much now has nothin to do wiv the girl being rich, it has to do with increase in standards
The girl made him raise his standards and now all he thinks about is attaining higher standards, so of course, his demands will increase
**** Dis is the problem l had with my ex, and l got SEEEERRRRious heartbreak from it. So it's either the girl let's him go now, or................ Cos l think he loves the money mo than her now
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 17-08-2008 11:17 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
darkocean002 at 18-08-2008 01:41 AM (15 years ago) (m)
why do girls like to mess there relationship up themselves, your friend started it all by offering him money..some girls would make the relationship a do or die thing. for me, my woman can buy me gift but not d level of giving me money. would feel she's buying my love..
Posted: at 18-08-2008 01:41 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
myragonza at 18-08-2008 05:37 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: simmie on 17-08-2008 08:48 PM
i have a friend. we've been together for six years now. she has been with her boyfriend for four years. her boyfriend is from a poor background and he's a student, no job. she's also a student, but from a rich family. the first time she bought him a shirt, he reluctantly collected it, telling her that he did not like collecting gifts from ladies. now, he collects things from her at freewill, requests for money from her. she's getting worried, because she loves him and thinks he's just after her money. what do you think about that?
tell her to stop her charity work with that guy....
why do girls like to mess there relationship up themselves, your friend started it all by offering him money..some girls would make the relationship a do or die thing. for me, my woman can buy me gift but not d level of giving me money. would feel she's buying my love..
she was just being nice, and probably felt sorry for him too. Which i don't see anything wrong with it..its the guys that messes things up for themselves when they get wayyyy too comfortable...He thought that may be he can use her since she got money, and thats where he screwed up.
Posted: at 19-08-2008 12:19 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
why do girls like to mess there relationship up themselves, your friend started it all by offering him money..some girls would make the relationship a do or die thing. for me, my woman can buy me gift but not d level of giving me money. would feel she's buying my love..
she was just being nice, and probably felt sorry for him too. Which i don't see anything wrong with it..its the guys that messes things up for themselves when they get wayyyy too comfortable...He thought that may be he can use her since she got money, and thats where he screwed up.
True, He has been listening to friends
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 19-08-2008 01:12 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
darkocean002 at 19-08-2008 01:16 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Kennee on 19-08-2008 01:12 AM
Quote from: vixenx on 19-08-2008 12:19 AM
Quote from: darkocean002 on 18-08-2008 01:41 AM
why do girls like to mess there relationship up themselves, your friend started it all by offering him money..some girls would make the relationship a do or die thing. for me, my woman can buy me gift but not d level of giving me money. would feel she's buying my love..
she was just being nice, and probably felt sorry for him too. Which i don't see anything wrong with it..its the guys that messes things up for themselves when they get wayyyy too comfortable...He thought that may be he can use her since she got money, and thats where he screwed up.
True, He has been listening to friends
i still think its not a good idea for a lady to spend her money on a guy trying to make him stay
Posted: at 19-08-2008 01:16 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
walerian at 19-08-2008 01:05 PM (15 years ago) (m)
i see no wrong to give wen u know ur partner is lacking but the game of frequent demands is wat i suspect. i'll rather borrow money from friends than ask ma babe for money. also, dont judge the guy he might still love de babe n likwise de babe.
Posted: at 19-08-2008 01:05 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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