I am 23 years old and in love with a man of 45 years. He is ready to have me as his second wife and he is a God-fearing man. I really love him but his wife is my problem. What do I do?
K.K, Lagos
You have not specified how the wife poses a problem to you. But in whatever way you view it, I believe you should steer clear of that home. On the other hand, if his religion permits more than a wife, he is free to be a polygamist. But, if he is God-fearing Christian as you implied, then, he should not contemplate having a second wife, especially if he is legally married to his first wife.
Besides, there is no assurance from him that you could remain his second and last wife. Even if he tells you that now, I am sure he will get ‘bored’ with you as you grow older and promise another girl, young enough to be his daughter, marriage. Don’t be a fool in love.
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Posted: at 20-02-2010 09:53 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dirtykid at 20-02-2010 01:47 PM (15 years ago) (m)
see wahala oo. u know he is married and u still they enter there. is that time of prophesy here. when many will glue to one man and pleading him just to bear his name?
Maybe that hour has come.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 20-02-2010 01:47 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Starlette at 20-02-2010 02:22 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Y won't she b a problem. What God has join together, let no man put asunder, don't u no u re an intruder. Go look 4 ur own Husband, or else d problem u'll face will b bigger than dat u re facing now.
De shining star
Posted: at 20-02-2010 02:22 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Miss_precious at 20-02-2010 03:00 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: myragonza on 20-02-2010 02:27 PM
damn!!!
handwritings on the wall.... drawings on the ceilings.....
no mind the stupid gurl.....
you want to reap where u did not sew....having the man as ur sugar daddy is not enough for you..you want to marry him...go and marry.....if i be that woman i go blind the gurl
You know you're the best when people you don't know hate you
Posted: at 20-02-2010 03:00 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac