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Hi everyone in the house,

I need an urgent response to this.

I am a graduate, gainfully employed, in my mid twenties.

I am presently in a seven month old relationship. The guy is 9months older than I am. He is also working, but he has not gone to serve.

He says he would like to marry me.

We don't see too often, despite the fact that we stay in the same state. I compaline about this, and he promise d to change. He did, but I think he is reverting to his former behaviour. At least, I have not seen him for two weeks now.

I have discussed this isuue with him several times, but he is always telling  me to take it cool.

I know he is dating someone else; but i have not been complaining.

He doesn't allow me to go through his phone.

My pastor called me some weeks ago that he would want to know the person I am dating and probably receive letter from his pastor to know the kind of person he is.

I didn't inform my boyfriend about this at first, but on another thought, I decided to tell him, to know his response; and perhaps to test him.

When, I told him, he said he is not ready for that yet, and that he wants our relationship to be on low profile.

I even told him that I am not asking him to marry me now, but at least let me know his plans.

He didn,t tell me anything.

I have been to his house a couple of times. I have met his siblings and grandmum; but I have never met his parents and he has not introduced me to any of them.

I met a guy two months ago, he is a little above thirty.

He proposed to me and he intends to get married in less than a year.

Please advise me on what to do.

Hi everyone in the house,

I need an urgent response to this.

I am a graduate, gainfully employed, in my mid twenties.

I am presently in a seven month old relationship. The guy is 9months older than I am. He is also working, but he has not gone to serve.

He says he would like to marry me.

We don't see too often, despite the fact that we stay in the same state. I compaline about this, and he promise d to change. He did, but I think he is reverting to his former behaviour. At least, I have not seen him for two weeks now.

I have discussed this isuue with him several times, but he is always telling  me to take it cool.

I know he is dating someone else; but i have not been complaining.

He doesn't allow me to go through his phone.

My pastor called me some weeks ago that he would want to know the person I am dating and probably receive letter from his pastor to know the kind of person he is.

I didn't inform my boyfriend about this at first, but on another thought, I decided to tell him, to know his response; and perhaps to test him.

When, I told him, he said he is not ready for that yet, and that he wants our relationship to be on low profile.

I even told him that I am not asking him to marry me now, but at least let me know his plans.

He didn,t tell me anything.

I have been to his house a couple of times. I have met his siblings and grandmum; but I have never met his parents and he has not introduced me to any of them.

I met a guy two months ago, he is a little above thirty.

He proposed to me and he intends to get married in less than a year.

Please advise me on what to do.