Can Lesbianism be lagalized in Nigeria? (Page 15)

mbanu..haba.., samsam, kai babu..lailai...any lesbian here???       

Posted: at 16-01-2009 03:19 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

true talk 

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Posted: at 16-01-2009 03:40 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

don't mind all dis naughty girls they want to give cool guys like u.bad market.
njo ahia

Posted: at 16-01-2009 04:01 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

bt y wont someone think abt legalising Lesbianism in naija y?.. na wa o

Posted: at 16-01-2009 04:08 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Am I for or against? Does that mean am I for or against the legalization of Lesbianism? Regardless of what consenting adults do in their sex lives, it  should not be regulated by governments, religions, or other individuals. It is no one's business. The person you love or have as a friend or date or marry or have  sex with is between the two persons. Not governments, not religions, not other people. As a girl said in a movie: "You can't choose the person you love. You are not supposed to." There are simply some things that human beings do that are private. I do not care what other straight or gay people do in their private lives. Again, it is none of my business. What concerns me is what I do. That keeps me busy.

Also I do not think governments or religions even need to tell people what is right or wrong, good or bad, moral or immoral, ethical or unethical. I think we all know those things. I think these things are basic to human nature.

One of my best friends in Nigeria told me his father has five wives. Fela Kuti had twenty seven wives. Some people might think that is immoral. Not me. No one is being harmed. No one is forcing them to do that.

When I judge other people, I care about intelligence, character, sense of humor, etc. Certainly not what they do in sex.

I read that in Afghanistan if someone is found to be gay, that person is buried alive. If that is true, the people doing that are barbaric

Homosegxwality is a small part of nature It always has been and it always will be. You are born with your segxwality. It is not a habit as someone here said, and it is certainly  not a choice. Just use reason. With all of the terrible things that are done to gay people, why would anyone choose to be gay? That is ridiculous. Who would choose to be gay since  the majority hates or dislikes or wants to kill them? This group has some great killers in here. So many straight people are absolute religious hypocrites. They are against gay people, but they cheat on their girlfriends or boyfriends, or if they are married, they commit adultery. Clean up your own house first. And for those people here who are religious, remember in LEVITICUS it says adulterers should be killed.

Being gay and having gay sex should be legal regardless of what country a person lives in.

Also someone said I should copy and paste what I said in my previous post. I do not know how to do that. lol Any help would be appreciated.

Finally, I have been to Nigeria twice in 2007 for a month and in 2008 for three weeks. I went to visit friends. Because your government leaders are so corrupt and self-serving and selfish  and want to amass for themselves so much personal wealth, it is a tragedy that life for the Nigerian people is so difficult. I think the Nigerian people are wonderful and amazing and have such incredible strength and courage. I admire and respect so much the greatness of the Nigerian people. You are truly amazing and beautiful. And maybe the best looking people in Africa. lol  So why waste so much of your humanity on homophobia?

Thanks for listening to an Oyibo and an outsider.

Posted: at 16-01-2009 04:12 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

bia oyibo.,i beg take all that ur easy writing to ur land. we re talking about our precious country.
we have culture and tradition and that is what makes us who we are.
Lesbianism is not in our trait.

Posted: at 16-01-2009 05:15 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

Akene14: You need to read again what I wrote. Obviously you missed the points I was making. First, what you do in bed is none of my business, nor am I interested in what you do. Also what you or any other person does in sex does not make me happy or unhappy.  Also you do not know what sodomy and sodomize mean so I will help you. One definition of sodomy is to have sex with another man or with an animal. It also means to have anal sex with a woman, and some straight men do that, even though you might deny it. And when you say even if I am one, you know nothing about me, and when you imply that accusation, you make a fool out of yourself.

Viviano07: You do not know what you are talking about. Homosegxwality has always been a  part of Nigerian culture and tradition. You need to read more, and then you can support your ideas with evidence, not bigotry and ignorance. By ignorance, I mean a lack of knowledge.

And both of you only emphasize the negative. You completely overlook the compliments I made about the Nigerian people.

Posted: at 16-01-2009 06:06 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

amen he will start from sister ooooooooh.

Posted: at 16-01-2009 11:19 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

legalised or not i don't care....i love to watch tho...

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Posted: at 17-01-2009 12:30 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

u mean live show?

Posted: at 17-01-2009 11:14 AM (15 years ago) | Hero