Hello pals. My name is Amie n am Gambian but i reside in Norway. My boyfriend is a Nigerian,,, i meet him here in norway n we both fell for eachother, its been one year now since we started dating n we love eachother so much. but PALS! problem dey oooooo. he was seekin asylum here in Norway but he got rejected two times n i was sooo afraid they will send him back home so i suggested that he try n fine a white chick to marry so he can get pappers to stay. i have my own papers but is not strong enough to give anybody paper. he agree to wat i say n he started doing babylon thing but now is out of hand. he dont have time for me anymore n went ever he promise to come see me he always come up wit one excuse or the other. he always ask me to have patiean that things will get back to normal soon. but my dears things keep gettin worst by the day,,, the gal is now pregnant n they bout to get married. i dont know what to do pals. i am so much in love wit him,, i cant be with any other guy because of him. my life is so meaningless rite now.i even ask him to quit n if they send him back to nigeria i will go with him cus he use to tell me am the only reason y he want to stay here. but now he is tellin he has gone too far to leave the gal. WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW MY NIGERIAN IN LOWS? its hard for me to forget him. PLS HELP ME PALS.
Posted: at 2-04-2010 01:27 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
hi, i don,t know dat a nigerian girl do fall in love,but to drop a little advice as a guy maybe he is not the guy for you.....YOU CAN STILL WAIT FOR THE GUY WHO YOU ARE DESTINED TO BE WITH........
Posted: at 2-04-2010 02:15 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
myragonza at 2-04-2010 02:25 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: amycorra on 2-04-2010 01:27 PM
Hello pals. My name is Amie n am Gambian but i reside in Norway. My boyfriend is a Nigerian,,, i meet him here in norway n we both fell for eachother, its been one year now since we started dating n we love eachother so much. but PALS! problem dey oooooo. he was seekin asylum here in Norway but he got rejected two times n i was sooo afraid they will send him back home so i suggested that he try n fine a white chick to marry so he can get pappers to stay. i have my own papers but is not strong enough to give anybody paper. he agree to wat i say n he started doing babylon thing but now is out of hand. he dont have time for me anymore n went ever he promise to come see me he always come up wit one excuse or the other. he always ask me to have patiean that things will get back to normal soon. but my dears things keep gettin worst by the day,,, the gal is now pregnant n they bout to get married. i dont know what to do pals. i am so much in love wit him,, i cant be with any other guy because of him. my life is so meaningless rite now.i even ask him to quit n if they send him back to nigeria i will go with him cus he use to tell me am the only reason y he want to stay here. but now he is tellin he has gone too far to leave the gal. WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW MY NIGERIAN IN LOWS? its hard for me to forget him. PLS HELP ME PALS.
maybe he can marry a white gal for the sake of papers without having sex with her.....
Hello pals. My name is Amie n am Gambian but i reside in Norway. My boyfriend is a Nigerian,,, i meet him here in norway n we both fell for eachother, its been one year now since we started dating n we love eachother so much. but PALS! problem dey oooooo. he was seekin asylum here in Norway but he got rejected two times n i was sooo afraid they will send him back home so i suggested that he try n fine a white chick to marry so he can get pappers to stay. i have my own papers but is not strong enough to give anybody paper. he agree to wat i say n he started doing babylon thing but now is out of hand. he dont have time for me anymore n went ever he promise to come see me he always come up wit one excuse or the other. he always ask me to have patiean that things will get back to normal soon. but my dears things keep gettin worst by the day,,, the gal is now pregnant n they bout to get married. i dont know what to do pals. i am so much in love wit him,, i cant be with any other guy because of him. my life is so meaningless rite now.i even ask him to quit n if they send him back to nigeria i will go with him cus he use to tell me am the only reason y he want to stay here. but now he is tellin he has gone too far to leave the gal. WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW MY NIGERIAN IN LOWS? its hard for me to forget him. PLS HELP ME PALS.
maybe he can marry a white gal for the sake of papers without having sex with her.....
Myra i dont agree with u..... if the guy acted like that then the white girl will suspect him of trying to use her..... so he did the best thing
Posted: at 2-04-2010 03:33 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
blesyn003 at 2-04-2010 03:39 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: samdiego on 2-04-2010 02:15 PM
hi, i don,t know dat a nigerian girl do fall in love,but to drop a little advice as a guy maybe he is not the guy for you.....YOU CAN STILL WAIT FOR THE GUY WHO YOU ARE DESTINED TO BE WITH........
she in not a 9ja babe oo, gambian datin a 9ja guy.. at poster move on wit ur life, its not d end of d world, since u say d whitey is pregant 4 him, there is notin u can do abt it nw. its 2 late. dnt worry d rite guy will come. take heart. hug
Posted: at 2-04-2010 03:39 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
poster Gambia....things got to be real or look like real for it to work. afterall he is following ur advise....nd there's no way it will work out witout him putting eveything he got to make it real, including d milky juice...lol but d choice of waiting is left for u....it's gonna take long b4 he comes out dis situation now.
Posted: at 2-04-2010 04:06 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Hello pals. My name is Amie n am Gambian but i reside in Norway. My boyfriend is a Nigerian,,, i meet him here in norway n we both fell for eachother, its been one year now since we started dating n we love eachother so much. but PALS! problem dey oooooo. he was seekin asylum here in Norway but he got rejected two times n i was sooo afraid they will send him back home so i suggested that he try n fine a white chick to marry so he can get pappers to stay. i have my own papers but is not strong enough to give anybody paper. he agree to wat i say n he started doing babylon thing but now is out of hand. he dont have time for me anymore n went ever he promise to come see me he always come up wit one excuse or the other. he always ask me to have patiean that things will get back to normal soon. but my dears things keep gettin worst by the day,,, the gal is now pregnant n they bout to get married. i dont know what to do pals. i am so much in love wit him,, i cant be with any other guy because of him. my life is so meaningless rite now.i even ask him to quit n if they send him back to nigeria i will go with him cus he use to tell me am the only reason y he want to stay here. but now he is tellin he has gone too far to leave the gal. WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW MY NIGERIAN IN LOWS? its hard for me to forget him. PLS HELP ME PALS.
U av 2 move ahead.Though i know its a tough choice 2 make....At times like diz u've got 2 face reality.He may cum back 2u,but d chance is very slim...
Posted: at 2-04-2010 06:52 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ruffrugged at 2-04-2010 07:56 PM (15 years ago) (m)
sorry my dear na condition make cray fish bend. sorry o! if hungry don waya you b4 if you see opportunity you no go waste time. if you marry oyinbo = residence permit and if you born pikin that means they are citizens and they dont ever have to smell nigeria or africa except as tourists.
Posted: at 2-04-2010 07:56 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming