Help pls.

Date: 10-04-2010 9:39 am (14 years ago) | Author: biola b.
- at 10-04-2010 09:39 AM (14 years ago)
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Pals me out: there is this girl who has been my friend for some time now. She has be disturbing me for some now that she loves me and who like me to become her lover. I told her i already have a lover, and she said it does not matter that she is ready to do anything for me.i don't have feeling for her. What should i do? Friends told me i should use her and dump her.i am confussed   

Posted: at 10-04-2010 09:39 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- esonu at 10-04-2010 09:41 AM (14 years ago)
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u know u have no feelings for her then why seeking for advice again?

Posted: at 10-04-2010 09:41 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Tuks at 10-04-2010 10:10 AM (14 years ago)
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Keep on rebuffin her.Eventually she'd get tired of askin u same question,n finally leave u alone....
Posted: at 10-04-2010 10:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tuks at 10-04-2010 10:11 AM (14 years ago)
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Keep on rebuffin her.Eventually she'd get tired of askin u same question,n finally leave u alone....
Posted: at 10-04-2010 10:11 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- belindajustins at 10-04-2010 10:14 AM (14 years ago)
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she was just trying to let u know her feelings...but tell her u prefer to remain friends than use her and dump her
Posted: at 10-04-2010 10:14 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vantheo at 10-04-2010 10:25 AM (14 years ago)
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Just keep on resisting her and she'll leave u alone yo

Posted: at 10-04-2010 10:25 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 10-04-2010 10:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ahsra on 10-04-2010 09:39 AM
Pals me out: there is this girl who has been my friend for some time now. She has be disturbing me for some now that she loves me and who like me to become her lover. I told her i already have a lover, and she said it does not matter that she is ready to do anything for me.i don't have feeling for her. What should i do? Friends told me i should use her and dump her.i am confussed   

Be wary of the girl that liked U a whole lot more than U like her, before U started liking her. Most of the time her agenda isnt as simple as it may appear. A girl should be wooed. If U wooed her without knowing she should at least be able to tell U what U did that stole her heart. If she can't and starts saying something like,

"I don't know I just like U. I love U very much and I want to be with U. I can do anything for U."

Ha! Wahala fit dey o.


That theory of use and dump no easy o. Even if U want to use and dump it's safer to make her notice U, warm up to U and then choose to go on with Ur immoral plan. Always good to be clear who is the hunter and who is the hunted. Fish dey get bone o and when bone hook for neck no be small thing o.
Posted: at 10-04-2010 10:33 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Tuks at 10-04-2010 10:37 AM (14 years ago)
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@Onche....Nice advise there...
Posted: at 10-04-2010 10:37 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 10-04-2010 10:45 AM (14 years ago)
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lol

Posted: at 10-04-2010 10:45 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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