"I Just Got Deflowered, There Was No Blood, He Said I Lied" - Lady Tells Touching Ordeal

Date: 17-07-2018 2:24 pm (3 years ago) | Author: onuigbo felicia
- at 17-07-2018 02:24 PM (3 years ago)
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A lady has come online to share tales of how she was deflowered, but unfortunately, there was no blood and her boyfriend thinks she lied. so she needs advice
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“My name is Oreoluwa, I am 27 and right now, my fear is not solely about losing my relationship of many years but I am also scared about my childhood.
About a month ago, I got deflowered by my boyfriend of four years! Our relationship had been blissful. Everything had been perfect despite the fact that he had to abstain from sex because of me. (Well…) I was a virgin when we met and I had begged him to give me time.
Well, a month ago, after our introduction, I decided it was time and we had sex. He took time to school me about the first time, promised to be gentle and all that.
I braced myself and we even took precautions so the expected blood would not stain the sheets but to my dismay, there was no blood. Not a drop
The pain was there, I literally felt my body tearing and he was petting me and telling me it would be over soon.
After the whole thing, he looked at me and with a smile told me how ‘He’ made me a woman. We joked about it until we both rose from the bed and the tell-tale blood was nowhere to be found.
He looked at me and I found myself actually searching for blood, the sign that I just got deflowered! Nothing. I was shocked but my shock gave way for fear as I saw his expression. He was angry and disappointed!
How?
He’s still my boyfriend, our wedding plans have not changed, but he’s been cold, hasn’t touched me since. I can’t get into this marriage, without knowing what happened. My mother is no more and there’s really no one to talk to.
I have bothered google for a month, and from what I read, its either my hymen had been tampered with at some point or I had the rare case of ‘no blood virgin’. Every time I tried to bring it up, he changes the topic!
How do I make him understand that he actually made me a woman…I had never been with a man (well, consciously)
I already thought of calling off the wedding, I can’t marry this cold man!  #Mattersoftheheartwithlabos

Posted: at 17-07-2018 02:24 PM (3 years ago) | Hero
- osarobo62 at 17-07-2018 03:24 PM (3 years ago)
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if the central focus of his ''love' for you is based on your virginity,...then something is not right.
 Some women will bleed after having sex for the first time, while others won't. Both are perfectly normal.
Posted: at 17-07-2018 03:24 PM (3 years ago) | Hero
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- slimber at 17-07-2018 04:20 PM (3 years ago)
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Hmmmm I don't know
Posted: at 17-07-2018 04:20 PM (3 years ago) | Hero
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- Mykie010 at 17-07-2018 04:57 PM (3 years ago)
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I disvirgined one girl one time and there was no blood. The other one, small blood come out, so it's normal
Posted: at 17-07-2018 04:57 PM (3 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ruthie at 17-07-2018 06:37 PM (3 years ago)
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this old fool...i tire for you...
wtf are your putting out there?
Quote from: Mykie010 on 17-07-2018 04:57 PM
I disvirgined one girl one time and there was no blood. The other one, small blood come out, so it's normal
Posted: at 17-07-2018 06:37 PM (3 years ago) | Hero
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- OmosetanOmorele at 17-07-2018 07:14 PM (3 years ago)
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Quote from: ruthie on 17-07-2018 06:37 PM
this old fool...i tire for you...
wtf are your putting out there?
SMH
Ride on my niqqa
Posted: at 17-07-2018 07:14 PM (3 years ago) | Upcoming
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- humphreyedet at 22-07-2018 06:57 AM (3 years ago)
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Well.. I guess you have to explain to him why you kept him waiting for years and got him disappointed
Posted: at 22-07-2018 06:57 AM (3 years ago) | Upcoming
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