I think its high time i voice out, i need help

Published 9 years ago by: Olumide Vincent
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at 13-05-2010 03:56PM (9 years ago)

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Hi everyone out there my name is Vincent  i based in Abuja, i need help urgently, I graduated in year 2007 and served 2008-2009 in Borno state. i was in a relationship with a lady from my school between 2005 to 2007, before thins started falling apart. I started having problem with this lady ever since i was refused an entry visa to UK in the year 2006, in order not to waste ur precious time i lost her to another man who has a good job and desperate to get married.
ever since i finished serving have searching for jobs as an applicant, up till now i have no job and this is giving me sleepless night nothing around me is making me happy, am tired of bn a burden to people around me sometimes i wonder if there are people going through the same challenges am facing now, if you want to suggest prayer have prayed and fasted nothing is working around me.
Am afraid of having relationship because of this challenges am not happy being alone but am afraid i cannot be there for any lady now i don't want to fool myself, my look could not help me i don't need anybody to tell me that am good looking. pls i need ur advice


ebony_cutie at 13-05-2010 04:20PM (9 years ago)
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are you seeking help on how to get a job or a babe?
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spicygal08 at 13-05-2010 04:33PM (9 years ago)
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It's gud u've opened up...y die in silent?u musn't wait 4 government 2 employ u...u can start up somethin' on ur own.learn 2 tek 1 step @ a time till u get 2 ur dreamself.look around u,there r things u can do on ur own...start up there!wish u all d best Undecided Cheesy
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Pires07 at 13-05-2010 04:42PM (9 years ago)
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U've prayed and fasted as well and it seems nothing is working out, remember urs haven gotten to what Job suffered in the bible. Why not wait for God's time, that which i know too well must come to pass that's if u've truely waited on Him.
all hope is not lost yet bro, God's time is the best.

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chik001 at 13-05-2010 05:11PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: ebony_cutie on 13-05-2010 04:20PM
are you seeking help on how to get a job or a babe?

thank you my sis; leave the guy make him dey decieve himself.
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Pires07 at 13-05-2010 05:15PM (9 years ago)
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@chik and ebony, i dnt think this guy is fake. go through his post again, i felt for him when i read it.

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Tuks at 13-05-2010 05:58PM (9 years ago)
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@Poster....Its a phase in life,u'd definitely get tru it.Juz be steadfast in ur prayers,n av faith....Instead of wallowin in self pity,put brain 2 work,n pray God 4 ideas,on wat 2 do,no matter how lil it may be,n if a job cumz along,u grab it....Wish u all d best!
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HOPEA23 at 13-05-2010 06:13PM (9 years ago)
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who be hold your mouth before?

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onchedu at 13-05-2010 07:38PM (9 years ago)
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Hmmm... Dude try compose ursefl come tell us wetin U dey yarn.
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docreala at 13-05-2010 07:44PM (9 years ago)
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@ poster e go better! keep hope alive
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odiaero at 13-05-2010 07:46PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: olumbareal on 13-05-2010 03:56PM
Hi everyone out there my name is Vincent  i based in Abuja, i need help urgently, I graduated in year 2007 and served 2008-2009 in Borno state. i was in a relationship with a lady from my school between 2005 to 2007, before thins started falling apart. I started having problem with this lady ever since i was refused an entry visa to UK in the year 2006, in order not to waste ur precious time i lost her to another man who has a good job and desperate to get married.
ever since i finished serving have searching for jobs as an applicant, up till now i have no job and this is giving me sleepless night nothing around me is making me happy, am tired of bn a burden to people around me sometimes i wonder if there are people going through the same challenges am facing now, if you want to suggest prayer have prayed and fasted nothing is working around me.
Am afraid of having relationship because of this challenges am not happy being alone but am afraid i cannot be there for any lady now i don't want to fool myself, my look could not help me i don't need anybody to tell me that am good looking. pls i need ur advice
 patient is the answer Cool


Quote from: ebony_cutie on 13-05-2010 04:20PM
are you seeking help on how to get a job or a babe?
 ah, easy on the dude gurl Cheesy

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moneyinbrakemi at 13-05-2010 07:50PM (9 years ago)
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@ poster! Indeed you are passing through challenges but remember the way to success is very narrow...
Temptations are bound to come but be assured of VICTORY...Just have faith in GOD and think positively
cos the words of your mouth determines your future...
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docreala at 13-05-2010 07:53PM (9 years ago)
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gud one money man.
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moneyinbrakemi at 13-05-2010 07:56PM (9 years ago)
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Thanks my man Docreala!
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odiaero at 13-05-2010 07:57PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 13-05-2010 07:50PM
@ poster! Indeed you are passing through challenges but remember the way to success is very narrow...
Temptations are bound to come but be assured of VICTORY...Just have faith in GOD and think positively
cos the words of your mouth determines your future...
nice shot guy Wink

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docreala at 13-05-2010 07:58PM (9 years ago)
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aiight money
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dirtykid at 13-05-2010 07:58PM (9 years ago)
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Voice of the one in the wilderness.. send forth the message.

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Tphilip at 13-05-2010 08:17PM (9 years ago)
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Guy, graduate plenty. Wakeup, is as if u dey pity ursef, pity no d dis 1 guy. For u 2 start smtyn on ur own, u must hav capital, my advise; change environment. Women, dn't bother ursef, pray 4 a gd job first.
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fabmic at 13-05-2010 08:28PM (9 years ago)
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dont give up so soon bro. all tins will work 4 ur good
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iyke1 at 13-05-2010 10:19PM (9 years ago)
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4 where he never talk d one way he need  na job abei na babe u want? 4 me bros 4get babe side, make u find work 1st and get paid                                                                                                                                                                                          na person wey carry palm leave na him goat dey follow     [wise up man]           
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