See What Her Husband Did After She Refused To Buy Food Stuff In The Home

Date: 04-06-2019 5:53 pm (5 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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There is no recipe for an happy marriage, different marriage are based one different arrangements that suite the couples involved. Sometimes a woman marries a very wealthy man and ends up being pampered for the rest of her live and sometimes the man might not be very wealthy or might even be POOR and the woman still finds a way to make the entire relationship work by not focusing on what they don't have but capitalizing on what they have and can share, sometimes there is just no solution, some marriages just cant work because they were built in shaky foundations, we have this story from one of our members on a recent encounter she had with her husband concerning money for food shopping, she feels the weight has not been evenly shared and wants a re-assessment, checkout here message below:
 

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I don't know how this may sounds but am I suppose to contribute money in a home where my husband is comfortable to do everything? My husband doesn't gives me money for food or kitchen use, he always tells me to use my salary and if I raise a sound, he ask me what am I using my salary for 7? I have endured this for a long time until last week when I refused to buy food stuffs or make anything from my money. He got home from work and he asked me what did I make, I told him I didn't make anything as I didn't have enough money again to cook. And he asked me what happened to my salary and I told him it has finished and he kept quiet. We still have provision , he proceed to take tea and bread then he went to bed. Since that night, he has been coming back home with full stomach or he takes tea and bread at night. Now I am thinking am Ito be blamed cos I didn't disagree from the beginning of the marriage concerning this ? He takes care of everything apart from this though.... please how do I handle this ,I am getting fed up.



Posted: at 4-06-2019 05:53 PM (5 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- Bebold at 4-06-2019 06:53 PM (5 years ago)
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You are an idiot for asking he takes care of everything though ntu pichie gi onu infact nsi ju gi onu dia
Posted: at 4-06-2019 06:53 PM (5 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- padylink at 4-06-2019 07:38 PM (5 years ago)
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hahaha
Posted: at 4-06-2019 07:38 PM (5 years ago) | Newbie
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- padylink at 4-06-2019 07:38 PM (5 years ago)
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- Nattiebaby007 at 4-06-2019 07:54 PM (5 years ago)
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Wasted sperm
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- nametalkam at 4-06-2019 08:04 PM (5 years ago)
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Quote from: Bebold on  4-06-2019 06:53 PM
You are an idiot for asking he takes care of everything though ntu pichie gi onu infact nsi ju gi onu dia

In African tradition, the man is the provider in the home, he has to provide for his family and pay for all.

You cannot marry if you cannot provide for your wife and her extended family
Posted: at 4-06-2019 08:04 PM (5 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- morganaldore at 5-06-2019 01:48 AM (5 years ago)
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Quote from: nametalkam on  4-06-2019 08:04 PM
In African tradition, the man is the provider in the home, he has to provide for his family and pay for all.

You cannot marry if you cannot provide for your wife and her extended family

did you hear youself....In Africa u say...speak for your family and your tradition....dont say African tradition.
Posted: at 5-06-2019 01:48 AM (5 years ago) | Upcoming
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- LilJinx at 6-06-2019 02:50 PM (5 years ago)
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My mum and dad have been role models for me. Both of them earn salaries. Dad takes care of school fees, house rent, light bill etc and my mum is strictly food/feeding. This was how I was brought up. When I got married my husband is an alpha Male....takes care of everything. I didn't feel comfortable at all. We had a talk and he understood. So I do exactly that in my home...kitchen  area is mine and the rest is his. It gives me a sense of pride to contribute to my household... this is my opinion.
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