Miss Independent, what do you think about them? (Page 2)

Quote from: onchedu on  7-06-2010 10:38 AM

My definition of "miss independent is more of a woman that can think for herself (not consulting with the server on Venus) and take responsibility for her actions rather than a woman that exerts more energy in a counter-feminine nature to reduce her need for a man.

I like a woman to be industrious and know how to create wealth, but not many women/girls that do know how to stay feminine in character and retain that beautiful side of them once they feel they are self sufficient.

  Onchedu you cannot blame her ooo. I have been independent all of my life. I spend from age 18-32yrs fighting for survival. When I looked back at my life I realized that through it all I have to play the role of the man and woman. Between 27-32 I was fighting life for 2 of us. I never know the feminine side of me. Until I pray that prayer asking God to let me feel like a female because that is whom I am. I left Norris and since then I have been learning the feminine side of me which I detest to be honest because it comes across as me being a softie. lmao lmao

But as I said before you cannot blame that individual especially if she has to work to prove her self. What her boyfriend should do is help her find that feminine side of her. Norris never help me because he was ok knowing that he has a woman that was strong and self sufficient. For me am at the stage where am learning all over again. If a man genuinely love the lady he should help her to break down that wall she build around her.

It is just a protective wall she build around herself that needs someone who truly love her to tear it down.  Once it is down then you will see the love that you always was looking for. Hugs

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Posted: at 7-06-2010 07:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

pals thanks for all your contribution, advice as u can see we are all learning through this medium,
for example the arguement of ksurrina and Maxodus on how to control a woman, i can feel that many other women and men have their own opinion about that,

i have a God feeling that the argument between bittersweet and kennee willl cook up well, but that depend on hw much the both of them are willing to teach us on this topic.

Onchedu,as usual your idea and open mindness are intriguing to me and i believe to many other viewer on this site,


Maxodus, ksurina,kennee, bittersweet, hopeA, and every other person thanks for you taking out ti;e to educate us,  keep it up

Posted: at 7-06-2010 08:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

i agree with u that they aint the most difficult kind of people, if u get to win their trust

Posted: at 7-06-2010 08:48 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

most do, i concur

Posted: at 7-06-2010 10:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

True!

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Posted: at 7-06-2010 10:47 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

The question is not whether or not she stays at home or works outside. If she's staying at home is she busy at home or idle staying at home. An idle mind is the devils workshop.

Independent lady as commonly defined is a woman that is a go getter and has more regard for her personal achievements than she does for the people in her life. It's not her earning capacity that makes her unattractive to most men but the fact that she probably would have it hard reconciling her economic prowess with her femininity.

No one I want's an idle wife, but most men would prefer a woman whose routine borders on idleness and she still keeps her femininity than a wife that would be too engrossed in success she forgets her personal relationships.

Posted: at 8-06-2010 10:52 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

I always say the truth! 

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Posted: at 8-06-2010 05:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Why would I ever lie?

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Posted: at 8-06-2010 05:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

That is just all i like about Girl....

Posted: at 8-06-2010 05:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

No probl.!

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Posted: at 8-06-2010 05:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero