I have a boyfriend whom i love so much and his family so much and they loves me in return. He is from below average family and we have promised to marry each other. It's been two years now that i left the country and during those years, he rarely call me 5 times. He complains about no money to call and i am not capable to send him money. During those years i met a guy who care for me and answers me anytime i needed help. He is also where my boyfriend is. He proposed but i turned him down due to my commitment with my boyfriend. Now this other guy find a girl that he wanted to ask out, but my mind does not want that to happen because I love him so much. I ask my boyfriend that we should breakup, but it was so tough and his family comes in till we get back together. He always says he love me but hardly call or even flash talkless of sending a message. Its going to three years now and things has not change. And i want this second guy with all my heart. What should i do?
Posted: at 7-06-2010 06:06 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
Follow your mind since he has refuse to call or send message for three years and claimed to love you...Is there no cyber cafe where he can browse at least once in a month.....Maybe out of reach or seen is out of his mind.....
FOLLOW YOUR MIND.... i dont think he loves u any longer probably expecting u to be sending hard earned money to him to lavish on the his new girlfriends..........Baby be careful...
Go for the other guy if he dearly wants u..cos Gold is sold to those who knows the value....if that is where your happiness lies.
Posted: at 7-06-2010 06:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I understand but the issue is that this guy has not been communicating for years its unfair on the girl....even if he is trying to set the girl up, he should continue to play along and communicate....
Posted: at 7-06-2010 07:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I have a boyfriend whom i love so much and his family so much and they loves me in return. He is from below average family and we have promised to marry each other. It's been two years now that i left the country and during those years, he rarely call me 5 times. He complains about no money to call and i am not capable to send him money. During those years i met a guy who care for me and answers me anytime i needed help. He is also where my boyfriend is. He proposed but i turned him down due to my commitment with my boyfriend. Now this other guy find a girl that he wanted to ask out, but my mind does not want that to happen because I love him so much. I ask my boyfriend that we should breakup, but it was so tough and his family comes in till we get back together. He always says he love me but hardly call or even flash talkless of sending a message. Its going to three years now and things has not change. And i want this second guy with all my heart. What should i do?
U have said what U want and U r still asking what to do? Ha! Some girls sef, una know go make person kolo o. U have put Urself in a position to choose between two guys. One U have been with, grown to love/commit to and by whose family U have been accepted, and the other U met and have been receiving e-love from. Hmmm... Let "love" lead the way.
It's Ur life.
Posted: at 7-06-2010 10:20 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
I have a boyfriend whom i love so much and his family so much and they loves me in return. He is from below average family and we have promised to marry each other. It's been two years now that i left the country and during those years, he rarely call me 5 times. He complains about no money to call and i am not capable to send him money. During those years i met a guy who care for me and answers me anytime i needed help. He is also where my boyfriend is. He proposed but i turned him down due to my commitment with my boyfriend. Now this other guy find a girl that he wanted to ask out, but my mind does not want that to happen because I love him so much. I ask my boyfriend that we should breakup, but it was so tough and his family comes in till we get back together. He always says he love me but hardly call or even flash talkless of sending a message. Its going to three years now and things has not change. And i want this second guy with all my heart. What should i do?
See yu
Yu wan turn Maga
Yur Brain no dey Connect say yahoo nai dey Reign??
Person wey yu never see with yur two eye nai yu dey Love
Pls don't behave like a mugu in front of me, waka pass!!
Hisssssssssss
Mugu
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 7-06-2010 02:15 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Poster. Ask your self if it's possible to love 2people same time. You just decide which u need.If d 1st guy is not calling,do u believe in his love.2me,love is a decision,u keep it safe,if u let it go,another will come in and you'll be confused.
Posted: at 7-06-2010 02:21 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
igboprincess at 7-06-2010 09:06 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Mr-World on 7-06-2010 06:55 AM
lol...............she said the both guys are living in the same place......so she need to be careful with any decission she may take
Mr. World you are perceptive and I AGREE! Sounds like they running "GAME" on her. They are both coincidentally in the same place? Naaahhh Somebody is Scheming. This should be a no-brainer poster, why would you give thought to the So-called boyfriend who can't even call you or communicate with you? I won't tell you to jump swiftly with the other guy because from this angle it sounds SHADY. Just be careful because REAL LOVE is not Coerced, Forced, Prodded, etc. It comes naturally, effortlessly. Good Luck!
Posted: at 7-06-2010 09:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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