Are Men Committed??

Men want their ladylove to be committed. dey desire nothin bt total loyalty. If she goes @ with any other man, they feel angry and devastated. They are always trying to find @ if somethin is cookin. Wat about her ex? Did he cal? Do dey still meet each other? dis may not be applicable to all men, but a fair share of the population, What about guyz? una they loyal to una woman? una nor dey flirt around? Are u guyz totally committed? What about a fling here or there? Do they call that as only a fling, because they came back? wat about their loyalty and commitment? i read there are two different definitions for men and women? It can be inferred that quite a few men live by double standards.

They justify their every action. dey have plausible reasns 4 why they did somethin. But they will not tolerate any such behavior in their women. Isn’t it time that a woman stands up and tells her man that irrespective of the pain of break-up or divorce, if he goes wayward, she wuld leave him forever? Women are afraid of breaking up and that emboldens/encourge the men. Once a woman demands her rights, the man would be left with no choice abi?

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Posted: at 10-06-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@Poster, most times the woman holds the key to the success or otherwise of a relationship......If a marriage works, it depends more on how the woman handles the whole thing...........somehow, it is natural for a woman to want to keep her home, to want to make her relationship work........and we all know that it is easier for a divorced man to get married than his female counterpart (at least in Nigeria)..........Most men dont want to be saddled with 'second hand' women......The man's people who begin to ask what happened in her former marriage.  They would assume she wasnt a good wife and discourage their son not to get married to her.........But it would be even better if our men begin to put in more effort to make their marriage work!..........

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Posted: at 10-06-2010 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Dearie, you are right. The key success to a healthy relationship and blissful marriage is in the woman`s hand.

Posted: at 10-06-2010 10:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

So they should buckle up because its not even easy for women sef

Posted: at 10-06-2010 11:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Checking

Posted: at 11-06-2010 12:10 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Wetin you see?

Posted: at 11-06-2010 12:35 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

yes,keen to know

Posted: at 11-06-2010 12:50 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

God help us...

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Posted: at 13-06-2010 01:29 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Tnkz 4 ur contri..

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Posted: at 13-06-2010 02:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Yes na u heard him.

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Posted: at 13-06-2010 02:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac