TO THE LADIES

If u are a good believer and u dont like d ideal of  getting pregnant blf wedding, now ur husband family say they will not allow their son to marry u unless u get pregnant first. As a lady what are u going to do.

Posted: at 11-06-2010 12:42 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Ur the lady. U hold the aces. Dem never marry U dem don dey dictate terms na when dem marry U dem go gree U rest? Next thing U know they'l tell U "if U no born boy dem go give their son new wife."

I understand that this is common practice in some cultures and traditions in Naija, but this is a new family about to kick off we're talking about o.

The final say is Ur man. If he's with U, U can work anything out.

Some extended families just want to make sure the girl never throway her womb. Now talk about gender bias.

Posted: at 11-06-2010 12:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

na those days not now.... besides my husband family ppl no go decide for us... marriage i quit

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Posted: at 11-06-2010 12:57 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Posted: at 11-06-2010 01:38 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

do u intend giving anybody belle here?

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Posted: at 11-06-2010 01:49 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

seek God servnt advice and pray

Posted: at 11-06-2010 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

passing......   the ladies angle

Posted: at 13-06-2010 08:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero