Should i go ahead?????????????

I have this girl i love so much. Before i left Nigeria for Uk she persuaded me to meet her parents and tell them that i want to marry her(which i did). We recently have a misunderstanding becos i told her when to call me as i am a student and most time i will be in the class. She told me that she cant wait for me anymore. This has realy make me confused as i wanted to tie the knot with her and relocate to USA next year. Plsssss can any one tell me what i should do........

Posted: at 22-06-2010 10:04 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

do nothing just watch her leave, if you are not ready for marriage then you are not ready, if she cant wait any longer let her go, men and women dont have the same time frame

Posted: at 22-06-2010 10:39 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It's really difficult such a relationship!
But if she would really love u,she would wait for u!
Who knows, maybe she found other guy,or simply the reason beyond,not enough love!
Indeed, as Onchedu said, whatever her reasons,it's not by force!  

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Posted: at 22-06-2010 10:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

ur heart, ur decision, dont matter what the girl wants, what u want is what matters,

Posted: at 22-06-2010 10:56 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Its better u take your time, face your career and finish up.....there are lots of better girls that will love you and u will cherish u more....dont be surprised she is in love with someone else and just looking for excuses.

Posted: at 22-06-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

let her go, no shaking continue with ur life. ur own true love will surelly come ur way.

Posted: at 22-06-2010 11:49 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

she has to be the one that should be disturbed not you....if everything works out well. its for her own good....i wonder what she want to feed on if u put her in family way now...love will vanish, her eyes go clear....

Posted: at 22-06-2010 11:58 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

C me c wahala

Posted: at 22-06-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U see this is where ur problem lies, ur gf persuading
u to meet her parents when u're not willing and u did
just becos u want to please her

As a nigerian who's knows tradition, it is obvious that
she expects a marriage sonner than u planned, U still
have school to do wth and u knew how much longer
she has to wait, why dont u do the persuading, telling
her to be patient and giving her reasons why she should
wait
When it comes to issues like this dont for once think that
seeing her parents would make her wait no to talk of when
u're leaving the country. My brother, when u're leaving the
shores of niaja dont commit urself to a girl unless u're engaged
u can always call her to show interest, but believing she will
be ur wife is another thing cos the chances are 50 50

concentrate on ur studies and let her be, it has dawned on
u that u cant make her change her mind becos of ur absence
so let her be.

Posted: at 22-06-2010 04:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

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Posted: at 22-06-2010 04:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero