Advantages of Being Single

Date: 27-06-2010 12:26 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Addy Bowales
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- at 27-06-2010 12:26 PM (14 years ago)
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So many people are depressed, sad, and lonely because they don’t have somebody.

They think that once they finally find someone, they will be happy -- and they will have no troubles. Well I’m writing this for all of you people today.

It may be true that having someone can help add to your happiness and fulfillment. I believe that can occur and does occur when you find the right person that suits you.

But I can also recall a lot of people that are in relationships and they are miserable. They’re not happy at all. In fact, it’s like they are in prison. Many of them are trapped and they’d give anything to be single. They’d give anything to be in your shoes today.. Yes, there are advantages of being in a relationship, but I want to point out to you today some of the great advantages of being single.

 - You can do whatever you want, whenever you want. No questions asked. No guilt about doing it either. You don’t have to make excuses. You don’t have to call your girlfriend to check in on her or ask her permission to go somewhere.

- You can fool around with as many women as you want.

- You can have a lot of fun.

- You can go out to places that you otherwise couldn’t go to if you had a girlfriend.

- You can have fun and spend time with your friends. A lot of married people don’t have a lot of time to spend with their friends anymore.

- You can really focus on your career, education, fitness, and goals.

- You have time to improve yourself and become a better person.

- You are free. You don’t have anything holding you down or back.

- You don’t have to listen to any bitching.
So the next time you start to get down because you’re not dating someone, remember to enjoy the time that you are single. Before long you’ll be married and settled down. Enjoy it while you can.

Another thing, once you do find someone to settle down with, know that if you don’t bring happiness into the relationship, you will never be happy in that relationship in the long run. Don’t depend on someone else for your happiness -- that is no way to live.

Only you are ultimately responsible for your own happiness.



Posted: at 27-06-2010 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- bittersweet at 27-06-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago)
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There are some points in that article

Posted: at 27-06-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 27-06-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago)
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correct

Posted: at 27-06-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- AskGod at 27-06-2010 04:01 PM (14 years ago)
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U are right.
Posted: at 27-06-2010 04:01 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Cindypat at 27-06-2010 04:05 PM (14 years ago)
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I agree
Posted: at 27-06-2010 04:05 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- tyabo at 27-06-2010 05:19 PM (14 years ago)
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i ova, xcess, more dan agree wif u bro..
Posted: at 27-06-2010 05:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 27-06-2010 05:20 PM (14 years ago)
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 Cool

Posted: at 27-06-2010 05:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pires07 at 27-06-2010 05:25 PM (14 years ago)
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mshww
@poster...How old re u?

Posted: at 27-06-2010 05:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- brightossy at 27-06-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago)
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All d singles hands up
Posted: at 27-06-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moneyinbrakemi at 27-06-2010 05:33 PM (14 years ago)
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@ kennee__I guess he is about Methuselah's age
Posted: at 27-06-2010 05:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 27-06-2010 05:52 PM (14 years ago)
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oh how i love a "SINGLE LIFE STYLE"..   Lips Sealed
Posted: at 27-06-2010 05:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- handsomeemmy1 at 27-06-2010 06:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Thumps up to the singles

Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dranatomy at 27-06-2010 06:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Being single depends on ur age lol
Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:31 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- PreetyInstinct at 27-06-2010 06:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Ok but after posting dis there is nuffin 2 contribrute? Huh?

Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 27-06-2010 06:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Dranatomy on 27-06-2010 06:31 PM
Being single depends on ur age lol

Why depends on your age? Huh?
Someone couldn't choose to be single at his 50's or what are you saying there?

Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 27-06-2010 06:40 PM (14 years ago)
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I guess this poster is ENCOURAGING people to remain single for life which is a very bad OMEN
Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 27-06-2010 06:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 27-06-2010 06:36 PM
Quote from: Dranatomy on 27-06-2010 06:31 PM
Being single depends on ur age lol

Why depends on your age? Huh?
Someone couldn't choose to be single at his 50's or what are you saying there?

Hmmm! You are partially right cos before that person must have gotten to that age
50 he or she must have had the opportunity to be married but they must have misused
it or still in the saying,"God's time is the best" without knowing that it all depends on their
hard work and prayers---cos E NOR EASY says P-Square!!!
Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 27-06-2010 06:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 27-06-2010 06:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-06-2010 06:36 PM
Quote from: Dranatomy on 27-06-2010 06:31 PM
Being single depends on ur age lol

Why depends on your age? Huh?
Someone couldn't choose to be single at his 50's or what are you saying there?

Hmmm! You are partially right cos before that person must have gotten to that age
50 he or she must have had the opportunity to be married but they must have misused
it or still in the saying,"God's time is the best" without knowing that it all depends on their
hard work and prayers---cos E NOR EASY says P-Square!!!

No,I meant that maybe are ppl who are comfortable being single for their entire life, who knows

Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 27-06-2010 06:57 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 27-06-2010 06:50 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 27-06-2010 06:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-06-2010 06:36 PM
Quote from: Dranatomy on 27-06-2010 06:31 PM
Being single depends on ur age lol


Why depends on your age? Huh?
Someone couldn't choose to be single at his 50's or what are you saying there?


Hmmm! You are partially right cos before that person must have gotten to that age
50 he or she must have had the opportunity to be married but they must have misused
it or still in the saying,"God's time is the best" without knowing that it all depends on their
hard work and prayers---cos E NOR EASY says P-Square!!!


No,I meant that maybe are ppl who are comfortable being single for their entire life, who knows


http://That is a funny and wicked lifestyle Else they are practicing celibacy.
Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 27-06-2010 07:04 PM (14 years ago)
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oh how i love bn single....  Lips Sealed
Posted: at 27-06-2010 07:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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