So many people are depressed, sad, and lonely because they don’t have somebody.
They think that once they finally find someone, they will be happy -- and they will have no troubles. Well I’m writing this for all of you people today.
It may be true that having someone can help add to your happiness and fulfillment. I believe that can occur and does occur when you find the right person that suits you.
But I can also recall a lot of people that are in relationships and they are miserable. They’re not happy at all. In fact, it’s like they are in prison. Many of them are trapped and they’d give anything to be single. They’d give anything to be in your shoes today.. Yes, there are advantages of being in a relationship, but I want to point out to you today some of the great advantages of being single.
- You can do whatever you want, whenever you want. No questions asked. No guilt about doing it either. You don’t have to make excuses. You don’t have to call your girlfriend to check in on her or ask her permission to go somewhere.
- You can fool around with as many women as you want.
- You can have a lot of fun.
- You can go out to places that you otherwise couldn’t go to if you had a girlfriend.
- You can have fun and spend time with your friends. A lot of married people don’t have a lot of time to spend with their friends anymore.
- You can really focus on your career, education, fitness, and goals.
- You have time to improve yourself and become a better person.
- You are free. You don’t have anything holding you down or back.
- You don’t have to listen to any bitching. So the next time you start to get down because you’re not dating someone, remember to enjoy the time that you are single. Before long you’ll be married and settled down. Enjoy it while you can.
Another thing, once you do find someone to settle down with, know that if you don’t bring happiness into the relationship, you will never be happy in that relationship in the long run. Don’t depend on someone else for your happiness -- that is no way to live.
Only you are ultimately responsible for your own happiness.
Posted: at 27-06-2010 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 27-06-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago) (f)
There are some points in that article
Live and let live!
Posted: at 27-06-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
FAKE PROFILES DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT, UNLESS PEOPLE HIDE BEHIND THEM TO SPIT VENOM. SHOW THE BOLDNESS OF A LION NEXT TIME......USE YOUR ORIGINAL PROFILE!!
Posted: at 27-06-2010 05:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
handsomeemmy1 at 27-06-2010 06:24 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Thumps up to the singles
Life can only get better can only get better for me, i don't know about you. But just be calm remain focus because you never can tell where God is taking you to. smile.
Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
PreetyInstinct at 27-06-2010 06:32 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Ok but after posting dis there is nuffin 2 contribrute?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 27-06-2010 06:46 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-06-2010 06:36 PM
Quote from: Dranatomy on 27-06-2010 06:31 PM
Being single depends on ur age lol
Why depends on your age? Someone couldn't choose to be single at his 50's or what are you saying there?
Hmmm! You are partially right cos before that person must have gotten to that age 50 he or she must have had the opportunity to be married but they must have misused it or still in the saying,"God's time is the best" without knowing that it all depends on their hard work and prayers---cos E NOR EASY says P-Square!!!
Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 27-06-2010 06:50 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 27-06-2010 06:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-06-2010 06:36 PM
Quote from: Dranatomy on 27-06-2010 06:31 PM
Being single depends on ur age lol
Why depends on your age? Someone couldn't choose to be single at his 50's or what are you saying there?
Hmmm! You are partially right cos before that person must have gotten to that age 50 he or she must have had the opportunity to be married but they must have misused it or still in the saying,"God's time is the best" without knowing that it all depends on their hard work and prayers---cos E NOR EASY says P-Square!!!
No,I meant that maybe are ppl who are comfortable being single for their entire life, who knows
Live and let live!
Posted: at 27-06-2010 06:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 27-06-2010 06:57 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-06-2010 06:50 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 27-06-2010 06:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-06-2010 06:36 PM
Quote from: Dranatomy on 27-06-2010 06:31 PM
Being single depends on ur age lol
Why depends on your age? Someone couldn't choose to be single at his 50's or what are you saying there?
Hmmm! You are partially right cos before that person must have gotten to that age 50 he or she must have had the opportunity to be married but they must have misused it or still in the saying,"God's time is the best" without knowing that it all depends on their hard work and prayers---cos E NOR EASY says P-Square!!!
No,I meant that maybe are ppl who are comfortable being single for their entire life, who knows