i started dis relatnship wen i was 14 and 6month ltr i broke ma virginity to him. 1yr latr he said he wanted us to take an oath whic i said firmly dat i didnt want it, he didnt contest so i tot dat was already delt wit till aftr a month he told me one day to kiss him and i did passionatly onli 4 him to tell me d kiss just seald d oath, i wasnt suprised cos from time i knew deir family to b fetish kind off.
now aftr 5 years of relatnship he decided to quite due to irreconcilable differences and stated clearly dat till deaths he doesnt evn want ani conversatn btwn us and he didnt say a word abt d oath.
pls paals i need u guys to help me solv dis stuff, wat do u guys think. im i reali stuck or not??
Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:24 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
sophiebaby at 21-07-2010 01:27 PM (13 years ago) (f)
baby u are stucked... just look for any living church arnd u and tell the pastor ya problems
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:27 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Stuck nope u not caused u did vow to him or promised him nutting he just used that to trap you..so he can still have. There were no oath between you both..he lied.
Since he said he doesn't want a conversation between you both ..gud move and forget the idiott.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Well i think that u played with fire in the first place by dating a fetish person . Meanwhile an oat it an agrrement between poeple that is sealed mostly with blood . since there was no agrreement from ur side i dont think there is any standing oat between the two of u . He played on your innocence by using that to intimidate u.
My advice is for u to go on with life and pretend nothing happened , go out and mix with new poeple and i bet u will find far better guys than he is . Mind u if there is any oat , he is also bound by that and he would no have broken it the way he did .
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
There is no standing agreement between you two. For an oath to have a full effect, it must be agreed on by 2 willing people. No oath exist between the both of you!!! You're free Baby, Go and sin no more!!!
Posted: at 21-07-2010 02:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
i started dis relatnship wen i was 14 and 6month ltr i broke ma virginity to him. 1yr latr he said he wanted us to take an oath whic i said firmly dat i didnt want it, he didnt contest so i tot dat was already delt wit till aftr a month he told me one day to kiss him and i did passionatly onli 4 him to tell me d kiss just seald d oath, i wasnt suprised cos from time i knew deir family to b fetish kind off.
now aftr 5 years of relatnship he decided to quite due to irreconcilable differences and stated clearly dat till deaths he doesnt evn want ani conversatn btwn us and he didnt say a word abt d oath.
pls paals i need u guys to help me solv dis stuff, wat do u guys think. im i reali stuck or not??
hmmmm gurl de guy is nothing but a piss of shit....dont panic.oath cannot be done through kissing neither can aoth be done without the consent of de other partner.. go on.. f**k as many men as u wish nothing gonna happen to u..
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS
Posted: at 21-07-2010 02:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 21-07-2010 02:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
knightangel at 21-07-2010 03:08 PM (13 years ago) (m)
"i knew their family to b fetish kind off."... from this statement i believe you knew what you were getting yourself into. You can't fight darkness in the dark, come out of the relationship and DRAW CLOSER TO GOD. HE (GOD) alone can help you.
Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
i started dis relatnship wen i was 14 and 6month ltr i broke ma virginity to him. 1yr latr he said he wanted us to take an oath whic i said firmly dat i didnt want it, he didnt contest so i tot dat was already delt wit till aftr a month he told me one day to kiss him and i did passionatly onli 4 him to tell me d kiss just seald d oath, i wasnt suprised cos from time i knew deir family to b fetish kind off.
now aftr 5 years of relatnship he decided to quite due to irreconcilable differences and stated clearly dat till deaths he doesnt evn want ani conversatn btwn us and he didnt say a word abt d oath.
pls paals i need u guys to help me solv dis stuff, wat do u guys think. im i reali stuck or not??
hmmm, poster dis ur post is confusing, ur status is a "male" how come u re telling us abt a guy?
Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Quote from: AKIOLUFUNMILAYO on 21-07-2010 03:09 PM
Quote from: babylam on 21-07-2010 01:24 PM
i started dis relatnship wen i was 14 and 6month ltr i broke ma virginity to him. 1yr latr he said he wanted us to take an oath whic i said firmly dat i didnt want it, he didnt contest so i tot dat was already delt wit till aftr a month he told me one day to kiss him and i did passionatly onli 4 him to tell me d kiss just seald d oath, i wasnt suprised cos from time i knew deir family to b fetish kind off.
now aftr 5 years of relatnship he decided to quite due to irreconcilable differences and stated clearly dat till deaths he doesnt evn want ani conversatn btwn us and he didnt say a word abt d oath.
pls paals i need u guys to help me solv dis stuff, wat do u guys think. im i reali stuck or not??
hmmm, poster dis ur post is confusing, ur status is a "male" how come u re telling us abt a guy?
its eida she made a mistake or her problem is too much for to evn remembr her sex.
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