pls help a sista

Date: 21-07-2010 1:24 pm (11 years ago) | Author: baby lami
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- at 21-07-2010 01:24 PM (11 years ago)
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i started dis relatnship wen i was 14 and 6month ltr i broke ma virginity to him. 1yr latr he said he wanted us to take an oath whic i said firmly dat i didnt want it, he didnt contest so i tot dat was already delt wit till aftr a month he told me one day to kiss him and i did passionatly onli 4 him to tell me d kiss just seald d oath, i wasnt suprised cos from time i knew deir family to b fetish kind off.


now aftr 5 years of relatnship he decided to quite due to irreconcilable differences and stated clearly dat till deaths he doesnt evn want ani conversatn btwn us and he didnt say a word abt d oath.

pls paals i need u guys to help me solv dis stuff, wat do u guys think. im i reali stuck or not??

Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:24 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
- sophiebaby at 21-07-2010 01:27 PM (11 years ago)
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baby u are stucked... just look for any living church arnd u and tell the pastor ya problems

Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:27 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Mistura at 21-07-2010 01:31 PM (11 years ago)
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ok thx sofi

Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:31 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 21-07-2010 01:32 PM (11 years ago)
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Stuck
nope u not caused u did vow to him or promised him nutting
he just used that to trap you..so he can still have.
There were no oath between you both..he lied.

Since he said he doesn't want a conversation between you both ..gud
move and forget the idiott.

Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:32 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 21-07-2010 01:33 PM (11 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmmmm

Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:33 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kokokool at 21-07-2010 01:35 PM (11 years ago)
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clearly, he's been scamming u for 5yrs cos i dont think it's possible seal an oath without ur willingness and consent. He simply took advantage of u
Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:35 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyiis at 21-07-2010 01:47 PM (11 years ago)
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Well i think that u played with fire in the first place by dating a fetish person . Meanwhile an oat it an agrrement between poeple that is sealed mostly with blood . since there was no agrreement from ur side i dont think there is any standing oat between the two of u . He played on your innocence by using that to intimidate u.

My advice is for u to go on with life and pretend nothing happened , go out and mix with new poeple and i bet u will find far better guys than he is . Mind u if there is any oat , he is also bound by that  and he would no have broken it the way he did .

Posted: at 21-07-2010 01:47 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- peax12 at 21-07-2010 02:36 PM (11 years ago)
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There is no standing agreement between you two. For an oath to have a full effect, it must be agreed on by 2 willing people. No oath exist between the both of you!!! You're free Baby, Go and sin no more!!!
Posted: at 21-07-2010 02:36 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- esonu at 21-07-2010 02:56 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: babylam on 21-07-2010 01:24 PM
i started dis relatnship wen i was 14 and 6month ltr i broke ma virginity to him. 1yr latr he said he wanted us to take an oath whic i said firmly dat i didnt want it, he didnt contest so i tot dat was already delt wit till aftr a month he told me one day to kiss him and i did passionatly onli 4 him to tell me d kiss just seald d oath, i wasnt suprised cos from time i knew deir family to b fetish kind off.


now aftr 5 years of relatnship he decided to quite due to irreconcilable differences and stated clearly dat till deaths he doesnt evn want ani conversatn btwn us and he didnt say a word abt d oath.

pls paals i need u guys to help me solv dis stuff, wat do u guys think. im i reali stuck or not??

hmmmm gurl de guy is nothing but a piss of shit....dont panic.oath cannot be done through kissing neither can aoth be done without the consent of de other partner.. go on.. f**k as many men as u wish nothing gonna happen to u..

Posted: at 21-07-2010 02:56 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 21-07-2010 02:59 PM (11 years ago)
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hehehee

Posted: at 21-07-2010 02:59 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 21-07-2010 03:01 PM (11 years ago)
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lolz

Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:01 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 21-07-2010 03:04 PM (11 years ago)
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ok

Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:04 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- knightangel at 21-07-2010 03:08 PM (11 years ago)
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"i knew their family to b fetish kind off."... from this statement i believe you knew what you were getting yourself into. You can't fight darkness in the dark, come out of the relationship and DRAW CLOSER TO GOD. HE (GOD) alone can help you.
Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:08 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- AKIOLUFUNMILAYO at 21-07-2010 03:09 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: babylam on 21-07-2010 01:24 PM
i started dis relatnship wen i was 14 and 6month ltr i broke ma virginity to him. 1yr latr he said he wanted us to take an oath whic i said firmly dat i didnt want it, he didnt contest so i tot dat was already delt wit till aftr a month he told me one day to kiss him and i did passionatly onli 4 him to tell me d kiss just seald d oath, i wasnt suprised cos from time i knew deir family to b fetish kind off.


now aftr 5 years of relatnship he decided to quite due to irreconcilable differences and stated clearly dat till deaths he doesnt evn want ani conversatn btwn us and he didnt say a word abt d oath.

pls paals i need u guys to help me solv dis stuff, wat do u guys think. im i reali stuck or not??

hmmm, poster dis ur post is confusing, ur status is a "male" how come u re telling us abt a guy?
Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:09 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 21-07-2010 03:11 PM (11 years ago)
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peeping with one eyes closed

Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:11 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- AKIOLUFUNMILAYO at 21-07-2010 03:25 PM (11 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:25 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Mistura at 21-07-2010 03:26 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: AKIOLUFUNMILAYO on 21-07-2010 03:09 PM
Quote from: babylam on 21-07-2010 01:24 PM
i started dis relatnship wen i was 14 and 6month ltr i broke ma virginity to him. 1yr latr he said he wanted us to take an oath whic i said firmly dat i didnt want it, he didnt contest so i tot dat was already delt wit till aftr a month he told me one day to kiss him and i did passionatly onli 4 him to tell me d kiss just seald d oath, i wasnt suprised cos from time i knew deir family to b fetish kind off.


now aftr 5 years of relatnship he decided to quite due to irreconcilable differences and stated clearly dat till deaths he doesnt evn want ani conversatn btwn us and he didnt say a word abt d oath.

pls paals i need u guys to help me solv dis stuff, wat do u guys think. im i reali stuck or not??

hmmm, poster dis ur post is confusing, ur status is a "male" how come u re telling us abt a guy?

its eida she made a mistake or her problem is too much for to evn remembr her sex.

lolz

Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:26 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- AKIOLUFUNMILAYO at 21-07-2010 03:39 PM (11 years ago)
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u might b rite sha!!!
Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:39 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- waco at 21-07-2010 03:42 PM (11 years ago)
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girl forget no be oath be that.
so long as blood is not involved

Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:42 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 21-07-2010 03:51 PM (11 years ago)
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lolz

Posted: at 21-07-2010 03:51 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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