WHAT CAUSES ARGUEMENTS DURING MARRIAGE?? (Page 5)

LACK UNDERSTANDING BTWN THE COUPLE CAUSES A LOT ARGUMENTS IN MARRIAGE................

Posted: at 13-09-2010 08:32 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Ur mumu pass Mr. Ibu own

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Posted: at 13-09-2010 09:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

my broda i beg dont mind this yeye prince... everypost is senseless to him because he cant read, write talkless of understanding the post...

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Posted: at 13-09-2010 11:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Lack of communication

Posted: at 14-09-2010 03:00 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Serious argument could occur when ders insincerity & trust btw d couples @ most times

Posted: at 14-09-2010 04:36 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Argument in marriage is very important because it really bring out the couples ability to balance issues. we invent argument some times to test our ability of absorptions.
some argument are directly invented by either the male or the female counterpart

Posted: at 14-09-2010 06:37 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

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Posted: at 14-09-2010 07:43 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 14-09-2010 07:49 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Read his comment and u'll find out!
It's like he wants to marry with a pair of Bosom s, not with a whole and mature woman!

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Posted: at 14-09-2010 08:08 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

There are many causes for not just arguments, after all we argue even with our siblings and sometimes parents, but in marriage, there are bound to be misunderstandings and the bad foundation laid at the beginning cause a marriage to turn sour.
The main issue is IMPATIENCE.
If we can apply the same patience we do to any other relationship, such as jobs, casual relationships, church relationships, etc, maybe, marriages will last longer. But we tend to believe there are certain things we shouldn't tolerate from our partners, then we throw the bath water out with the babies. Its terrible to think of how much effort some people put into getting into a marriage relationship but when inside it, they cannot put in a third of such effort to maintain it.
We all want something beautiful, but we have problems thinking beyond getting that beautiful thing. We have problems planning to MAINTAIN our relationships, no matter what we have professed before getting it.  :'(
If only we can look beyond the stone and see the diamond, the pure gem in our partners, life, marriage will be worth all the efforts.
I will leave you with this verse of the Bible that reads "Man that is in honor, and understandeth not, is like the beasts that perish" Psalm 49:20.
Any time you ask for anything from God, make sure you are ready to pay the price to make good use of it. After all in the same Bible, we read that " a man that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor of God".  Do you think the favor of God comes cheap? You have to pay a price to maintain that favor. You have to show God that you appreciate that favor, you have to prove that you are worth the favor.
If you are married, I thank God for you but if you are looking for a partner, consider well, if you are able to prove the favor is not wasted on you.
God bless. 

Posted: at 14-09-2010 09:37 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie