WHAT CAUSES ARGUEMENTS DURING MARRIAGE?? (Page 3)

Date: 13-08-2010 12:16 am (14 years ago) | Author: omorewa
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- omorewa at 11-09-2010 04:58 PM (14 years ago)
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okay... cheers

Posted: at 11-09-2010 04:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 11-09-2010 05:02 PM (14 years ago)
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4 wat? U won a contract?

Posted: at 11-09-2010 05:02 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 11-09-2010 05:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 13-08-2010 10:28 AM
There is no marriage without arguments but the most important thing is how you handle and settle them . It is one of the bedrocks of marraige that helps you bond even closser
True.
Posted: at 11-09-2010 05:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 11-09-2010 05:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Big and fat lie! I've seen marriages without arguements,yes! And if u ask me; go check d deaf and dumb couples in my area, do they argue?

Posted: at 11-09-2010 05:21 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 11-09-2010 05:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 11-09-2010 05:21 PM
Big and fat lie! I've seen marriages without arguements,yes! And if u ask me; go check d deaf and dumb couples in my area, do they argue?
Wat!.lol.You no well
Posted: at 11-09-2010 05:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 11-09-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago)
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money...................
lack of communication
sex...\

Posted: at 11-09-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Dguy at 11-09-2010 07:10 PM (14 years ago)
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Depends on the marriage - but the inability to resolve fundamental differences like routine, sleeping times and so on can be problematic at times -

biggest ones should be sex and money

Posted: at 11-09-2010 07:10 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 11-09-2010 10:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 11-09-2010 05:32 PM
money...................
lack of communication
sex...\


Hmmm. So sex self dey cause argument?

Posted: at 11-09-2010 10:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ozie267 at 11-09-2010 11:07 PM (14 years ago)
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communication gap causes arguementt..
Posted: at 11-09-2010 11:07 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Michro at 11-09-2010 11:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Ozie267 on 11-09-2010 11:07 PM
communication gap causes arguementt..

Huh?

Posted: at 11-09-2010 11:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ksurrina at 11-09-2010 11:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Marriages that has constant bickering doesn't have love inside of it. Those two married because of selfish reasons and when realities struck then they vent their frustration upon each other. Marriage was build by God upon LOVE and not the world view of Love. When one has Godly love then he/she will have the following characteristics.

1 Corithians 13 vs 4 - 7, 4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Until we are able to practice these inside our marriages then there will always be quarreling between couples. We cannot do it without God and so couples need to put protected and sheltered under Jesus Christ.

Posted: at 11-09-2010 11:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 12-09-2010 01:35 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 11-09-2010 11:56 PM
Marriages that has constant bickering doesn't have love inside of it. Those two married because of selfish reasons and when realities struck then they vent their frustration upon each other. Marriage was build by God upon LOVE and not the world view of Love. When one has Godly love then he/she will have the following characteristics.

1 Corithians 13 vs 4 - 7, 4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Until we are able to practice these inside our marriages then there will always be quarreling between couples. We cannot do it without God and so couples need to put protected and sheltered under Jesus Christ.
Hmmmmmmmm

Posted: at 12-09-2010 01:35 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- handbag at 12-09-2010 01:38 AM (14 years ago)
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i think is bcuz this people that have problem with there marriage are marred 4 money,there is no love btw them,bcuz if u find ur future husband u guys will understand each other no matter wht.
Posted: at 12-09-2010 01:38 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Michro at 12-09-2010 01:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: handbag on 12-09-2010 01:38 AM
i think is bcuz this people that have problem with there marriage are marred 4 money,there is no love btw them,bcuz if u find ur future husband u guys will understand each other no matter wht.

Yah

Posted: at 12-09-2010 01:42 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DiamondEagle at 12-09-2010 11:55 AM (14 years ago)
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 :PAny intelligent woman who reads the marriage contract, and then goes into it, deserves all the consequences.  Cool Grin
Posted: at 12-09-2010 11:55 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 12-09-2010 12:00 PM (14 years ago)
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One major thing dat can really cause unrest and arguements in marriage is sports,football especially.........last nite i came back home around 2am dis morning bcos of dat useless samuel peter's fight

Posted: at 12-09-2010 12:00 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyiis at 12-09-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: DiamondEagle on 12-09-2010 11:55 AM
:PAny intelligent woman who reads the marriage contract, and then goes into it, deserves all the consequences.  Cool Grin


So that excludes men ?  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 12-09-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Skipo4u at 12-09-2010 12:32 PM (14 years ago)
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COMMUNICATION
Posted: at 12-09-2010 12:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 12-09-2010 12:34 PM (14 years ago)
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lack of understanding

Posted: at 12-09-2010 12:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 12-09-2010 12:44 PM (14 years ago)
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And lack of common sense too

Posted: at 12-09-2010 12:44 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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