huh i will make sure i try as much as possible to reconcile with her, make it more blissful for a short while b4 kickin her ass...tit 4 tat, then she wuld know how it feels to be dumped...but afterwards if she wans continuity we wuld discuss that on a one-on one basis to c if it ll still work..
Posted: at 6-11-2007 05:41 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
huh i will make sure i try as much as possible to reconcile with her, make it more blissful for a short while b4 kickin her ass...tit 4 tat, then she wuld know how it feels to be dumped...but afterwards if she wans continuity we wuld discuss that on a one-on one basis to c if it ll still work..
abeg......end means END....capital END.....
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Posted: at 6-11-2007 06:58 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dguy i assume u dont have conscience, give her a breathing space, u wan d girl to go kolomental..no body liked to b dumped, but wen u give her another option she will feel worthwhile or appreciated even if u let go her...been dumped could hurt some people for a life time...depends on how they can cope- thats y many guys will always say i ll never trust a girl and vice versa...y u must have to trust even when such calamity befalls u...u have to clear ur conscience, i think thats d best way i could clear mine & b happy
Posted: at 6-11-2007 07:13 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dguy i assume u dont have conscience, give her a breathing space, u wan d girl to go kolomental..no body liked to b dumped, but wen u give her another option she will feel worthwhile or appreciated even if u let go her...been dumped could hurt some people for a life time...depends on how they can cope- thats y many guys will always say i ll never trust a girl and vice versa...y u must have to trust even when such calamity befalls u...u have to clear ur conscience, i think thats d best way i could clear mine & b happy
come on....be realistic, whats the chance that the person is not gonna dump her again.....so which hurts most?...why are you encouraging inferiority complex , If the guy does not appreciate what he has....then she should not try to reconcile, as hes an ingrate (and hes probably dumping her for another person).#
I rest my case
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Posted: at 6-11-2007 08:49 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
i know its a normal life process..but dumping could be done in a more matured way,,u let go amicably without no fuss...let d love fade away or let life circumstances take its toll...dont just find fault to get off...dats unreasonable..even if others will dump her eventually should it b u?
Posted: at 6-11-2007 09:38 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
If I thought I was being dumped - I would probably sit down and asses the relationship. Did I do something wrong? Was I looking at this as a lifetime commitment or was it a just a patch? Can I talk to this person "reasonably" to see what the issues are... if it seems inevitably, or that our style don't flow any more I would start to prepare myself (mentally and socially) gradually ... go out more with other friends, ... keep busy so that when it does happen there won't be too much time to cry.
Then again if you think this person is a keeper, you might have to figure out what it was that attracted u to him/her to begin with to see if you can rekindle that flame...
Posted: at 7-11-2007 02:28 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
myragonza at 7-11-2007 09:21 AM (16 years ago) (f)
i would take it with a straight-face....and move on....but i am gonna take it as a challenge....i shall make sure that my life turns out better than my ex........muahahahahahahaha*evil laughter*
Its not really easy but after a while you move on. Get more busy, just live your life its too short to spend mopping over someone who does not value you. I would simply get more and more busy. SIMPLE !
NOTHING IS GOTTEN EXCEPT ITS GIVEN FROM ABOVE
Posted: at 8-11-2007 11:35 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
I will feel really depressed for bout a min, and just move on with my life (You don't know what you have, till you loose it) and there are plenty of nice people out there, why waste your time over someone who don't want you.
Posted: at 9-11-2007 03:30 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
myragonza at 9-11-2007 05:01 AM (16 years ago) (f)
how bout this.......
when ur boyfriend tells u that he wants to break off with u or in other words "dump" u......u just laugh and say...."Oh thank god!!!finally i am free....i am free....god has freed me from the act that i have been staging all this while coz i just acted to love u out of pitiness....."
dguy i commend u for ur bluntness.Infact we need to explain this issue very clearly and unambiguously.Anyway, if it is, the female that dumped then there's no quarrel about that because that is what they are meant to do, i mean it is normal because they are indeed meant to do evil or have seen any woman without questionable characters in the Bible.But if it is the male counterpart that dumped then that fellow should be referred to the Psychatric Hospital.
Posted: at 9-11-2007 02:13 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
dguy i commend u for ur bluntness.Infact we need to explain this issue very clearly and unambiguously.Anyway, if it is, the female that dumped then there's no quarrel about that because that is what they are meant to do, i mean it is normal because they are indeed meant to do evil or have seen any woman without questionable characters in the Bible.But if it is the male counterpart that dumped then that fellow should be referred to the Psychatric Hospital.
No.....Dont say that because youre a female....do you men guys dont dump babes?
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Posted: at 9-11-2007 05:18 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
teabay09 at 12-11-2007 01:17 PM (16 years ago) (m)
dguy, i'm not a female i'm only trying to tell the reality.I wine and dine with female counterpart a lot, therefore i can predict their dos and don'ts to some extent.
Posted: at 12-11-2007 01:17 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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