How Do U Treat Ur Spouse When He/She is Angry

Kiss
careless
Romantic words
S*x

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:01 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

come on!
Irrespective of any temperatment
i think an immediate attention has to be dministered!
Delay might be dangerious.

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

wat if u tried all this and still doesnt want to listen to u
and doesnt want to come any where near u
ow do u make him listen to u

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:26 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

I leave him alone for a while, till he calms down, and if it takes too long,I'll start the talking, and usually he
relaxes,because I know what to tell him for that

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Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:29 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Yep. An immediate attention should be administered. Now whether that attention is direct or indirect is another issue altogther.

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

never fail to resolve a problem with your spouse before going to bed, it may be the last chance you have to do that

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:49 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

An apology would be in place. A sincere apology. Then I'd let her vent if that's needed, Then I'd hold her even even if her body is protesting against contact with mine initially as long as she doesn't tell me outrightly to leave her alone.

If she doesn't I'll hold her and just stroke her body in non segxwal ways to reassure her I am sorry.

If she does request or order I leave her alone, I'll leave but not go far. Just go somewhere within the vicinity till she's sorted her feelings out then I'll ask if she want's to talk about it.

If she says yes, we do and I take on the part of listener then when she has expressed herself I talk but not, much.

When we both feel heard and both of us manage of give a smile, I change the topic.

Sounds easy saying it but its not so easy in practice.

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

i like this topic

My bf dont need kissing and all those...only bein left alone or leavin d house for an hour...

but i dont like leavin d house when we still havin a fight, u neva knw wht can happen

Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Well my guy cud b like tht, he can keep quiet for a week, just cuz he's stubborn...got 2 much pride or whateva...

mmmm i refuse to go tht level.... then i start d conversation first...all i want is a peacefull home, doesnt matter how we solve it...

But i hate stubborness, tht is why we get bigger fight sometimes then we already had

Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:44 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Hhm!

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Posted: at 23-08-2010 01:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero