Er.....guys,abi na ladies,could you help me out here?I've got this friend that wants to get married at all costs.She has gone for prayers,fasted,done just about anything to get someone-any man at all to take her to the altar,but most recently,she met a guy online.they bgan 2 communicate and b4 u cn say 'Naijapals',de guy don propose.Mind you,she has never seen him b4,apart 4rm the pixs they faxed to each other,and the young man happens to be in Cotounou.My friend neva cross Abia state in her life before,but now she wants to go and see Loverboy over there!!My guts dont like it,but my sweetie is smitten.she also told me that her pestor et al hav confirmed he s d one 4 her.Some time ago,she gave me some money to keep 4 her,almost #53,000.Now she wants me to give it bck so she can travel with it.But,I know d whole thing is just a farce.so ive been stalling her,but its her money,now my ppl,wetin una dey advise mak i do?shld i jst giv her the cash and let her go,or do i hold it bck?
Posted: at 25-08-2010 03:32 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 25-08-2010 03:36 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Not a good idea for her to go to meet him,on his land! He should come to see her first! Her desperation could bring her a lot of troubles!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 25-08-2010 03:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Er.....guys,abi na ladies,could you help me out here?I've got this friend that wants to get married at all costs.She has gone for prayers,fasted,done just about anything to get someone-any man at all to take her to the altar,but most recently,she met a guy online.they bgan 2 communicate and b4 u cn say 'Naijapals',de guy don propose.Mind you,she has never seen him b4,apart 4rm the pixs they faxed to each other,and the young man happens to be in Cotounou.My friend neva cross Abia state in her life before,but now she wants to go and see Loverboy over there!!My guts dont like it,but my sweetie is smitten.she also told me that her pestor et al hav confirmed he s d one 4 her.Some time ago,she gave me some money to keep 4 her,almost #53,000.Now she wants me to give it bck so she can travel with it.But,I know d whole thing is just a farce.so ive been stalling her,but its her money,now my ppl,wetin una dey advise mak i do?shld i jst giv her the cash and let her go,or do i hold it bck?
is her money so give it to her.. u can only advise her but if de advise fells on deaf ears, leave her.. if it is gain, na she go enjoy am and if it is lose, well i dont know
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS
Posted: at 25-08-2010 03:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
if the guy love her then he should come to her instead of her going to him.. if you show guys that you are desperate, they will surely take advantage of it..
goodluck to her
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you!
Posted: at 25-08-2010 04:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Give her her money and stop delaying. Yeah she is Ur friend but she is taking a step in faith. U don't want to be the obstacle she has to go thru now do U?
Posted: at 26-08-2010 11:46 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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