COULD SOMEBODY LEND A HAND? (Page 2)

Er.....guys,abi na ladies,could you help me out here?I've got this friend that wants to get married at all costs.She has gone for prayers,fasted,done just about anything to get someone-any man at all to take her to the altar,but most recently,she met a guy online.they bgan 2 communicate and b4 u cn say 'Naijapals',de guy don propose.Mind you,she has never seen him b4,apart 4rm the pixs they faxed to each other,and the young man happens to be in Cotounou.My friend neva cross Abia state in her life before,but now she wants to go and see Loverboy over there!!My guts dont like it,but my sweetie is smitten.she also told me that her pestor et al hav confirmed he s d one 4 her.Some time ago,she gave me some money to keep 4 her,almost #53,000.Now she wants me to give it bck so she can travel with it.But,I know d whole thing is just a farce.so ive been stalling her,but its her money,now my ppl,wetin una dey advise mak i do?shld i jst giv her the cash and let her go,or do i hold it bck?

It's pidgin for "is that how much U like us?"