![-]( "mallorca") mallorca at 1-09-2010 05:38 PM (13 years ago)  (m) Pals , a younger colleague just confided in me that she experiences itching and foul discharge anytime she had sex with her guy without a condom.
The issue here is that she has been dating this young man for some years and they are planning marriage .Normally they make love without condom except when she is not safe , and she has never noticed any sign of infection .
Recently the Man was moved to another city for 6 weeks on official assignment and since his return to his base , the problem started.
Initially she uses "topical creams" to treat it but it qiuckly returns after sex with him .Now she does not know how to confront him abaut it.
Ladies , if you find yourself in this situation and guys if your gal complains to you abaut this , what will you do ?
your young colleague? that means she must be a Nurse so she knows better than me in this case.am out of here Fenerbache out 2 where 
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY | Posted: at 1-09-2010 05:38 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "youngk") youngk at 1-09-2010 07:05 PM (13 years ago) (m) na infection,but might not be from him...doctors plenty out there.say hello to one of them | Posted: at 1-09-2010 07:05 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "mazi") mazi at 1-09-2010 08:27 PM (13 years ago) (m) so Onyii, ur colleague go carry OKO junction, Eeeekwa
and instead of seeing a doctor na u she go consult?
did u refer her to see a doctor b4 insinuating dis ur cheat angle?! | Posted: at 1-09-2010 08:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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passing in a hurry cos i don't want to cheat | Posted: at 1-09-2010 08:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 3-09-2010 02:58 PM (13 years ago) (f) Pals , a younger colleague just confided in me that she experiences itching and foul discharge anytime she had sex with her guy without a condom.
The issue here is that she has been dating this young man for some years and they are planning marriage .Normally they make love without condom except when she is not safe , and she has never noticed any sign of infection .
Recently the Man was moved to another city for 6 weeks on official assignment and since his return to his base , the problem started.
Initially she uses "topical creams" to treat it but it qiuckly returns after sex with him .Now she does not know how to confront him abaut it.
Ladies , if you find yourself in this situation and guys if your gal complains to you abaut this , what will you do ?
Tell her to go see a doctor. She might have an infection that is inactive until during/after segxwal activity... If she doesn't like doctors she can see a pastor to tell her she's better not having sex with a man she's not married to. She has more to loose. Thats a heavenly advice but how many singles can date without sex these days ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 3-09-2010 02:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 3-09-2010 02:59 PM (13 years ago) (f) ******l itching isn't necessarily a sign of an STD that was transmitted segxwally. It could be something she picked up from another girl she shares a toilet with or from a public toilet.
She should get him to see a doctor too just in case or he should see a doctor too.
You are right there but considering the circumstances sorrounding the itching , that was the first thing that came to her mind
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 3-09-2010 02:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 3-09-2010 03:01 PM (13 years ago) (f) Onyiis shey U don hear?
yea i hear u well and your advice will be transmitted to the appropriate quarters 
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 3-09-2010 03:09 PM (13 years ago) (f) Pals , a younger colleague just confided in me that she experiences itching and foul discharge anytime she had sex with her guy without a condom.
The issue here is that she has been dating this young man for some years and they are planning marriage .Normally they make love without condom except when she is not safe , and she has never noticed any sign of infection .
Recently the Man was moved to another city for 6 weeks on official assignment and since his return to his base , the problem started.
Initially she uses "topical creams" to treat it but it qiuckly returns after sex with him .Now she does not know how to confront him abaut it.
Ladies , if you find yourself in this situation and guys if your gal complains to you abaut this , what will you do ?
your young colleague? that means she must be a Nurse so she knows better than me in this case.am out of here That she is my colleague does not necessarily mean she must be a nurse . She is part of the medical team .
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 3-09-2010 03:13 PM (13 years ago) (m) Pals , a younger colleague just confided in me that she experiences itching and foul discharge anytime she had sex with her guy without a condom.
The issue here is that she has been dating this young man for some years and they are planning marriage .Normally they make love without condom except when she is not safe , and she has never noticed any sign of infection .
Recently the Man was moved to another city for 6 weeks on official assignment and since his return to his base , the problem started.
Initially she uses "topical creams" to treat it but it qiuckly returns after sex with him .Now she does not know how to confront him abaut it.
Ladies , if you find yourself in this situation and guys if your gal complains to you abaut this , what will you do ?
Tell her to go see a doctor. She might have an infection that is inactive until during/after segxwal activity... If she doesn't like doctors she can see a pastor to tell her she's better not having sex with a man she's not married to. She has more to loose. Thats a heavenly advice but how many singles can date without sex these days ? U are a single. I am a single. If U stay without sex and I stay without sex, that will add two to the number of singles that can stay without sex these$ days. Will U stay? | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 3-09-2010 03:18 PM (13 years ago) (f) so Onyii, ur colleague go carry OKO junction, Eeeekwa
and instead of seeing a doctor na u she go consult?
did u refer her to see a doctor b4 insinuating dis ur cheat angle?!
Well maybe i did not put the question right .She did a test right it was confirmed she has some fungal and microbial proliferation . Though this is not a condition that is solelly segxwally transmissible, there are other possibilities . In most cases the two partners need to see a doctor together . According to her , knowing she has not done anything unsual her major proble is how does she confront him ? My reason of sharing this here is to find out the possible methods of confrontation in such cases
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 3-09-2010 03:20 PM (13 years ago) (f) Pals , a younger colleague just confided in me that she experiences itching and foul discharge anytime she had sex with her guy without a condom.
The issue here is that she has been dating this young man for some years and they are planning marriage .Normally they make love without condom except when she is not safe , and she has never noticed any sign of infection .
Recently the Man was moved to another city for 6 weeks on official assignment and since his return to his base , the problem started.
Initially she uses "topical creams" to treat it but it qiuckly returns after sex with him .Now she does not know how to confront him abaut it.
Ladies , if you find yourself in this situation and guys if your gal complains to you abaut this , what will you do ?
Tell her to go see a doctor. She might have an infection that is inactive until during/after segxwal activity... If she doesn't like doctors she can see a pastor to tell her she's better not having sex with a man she's not married to. She has more to loose. Thats a heavenly advice but how many singles can date without sex these days ? U are a single. I am a single. If U stay without sex and I stay without sex, that will add two to the number of singles that can stay without sex these$ days. Will U stay? heheheeeeeeee !! u are quite right , i did it while i was single and knew a handfull that does it , but i am no longer single
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 3-09-2010 03:26 PM (13 years ago) (m) By "no longer single" I take it U mean U are married? | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 3-09-2010 03:28 PM (13 years ago) (f) yes i am with kids
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 3-09-2010 03:29 PM (13 years ago) (f) By "no longer single" I take it U mean U are married?
hehehee !!! Spiritually and legally married
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 3-09-2010 03:33 PM (13 years ago) (m) Oh that's good. Then U have no business staying without sex like the rest of us. ENJOY  | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 3-09-2010 03:43 PM (13 years ago) (f) Oh that's good. Then U have no business staying without sex like the rest of us. ENJOY Thanks . then to my refraimed question, what is the best confrontational method in this type of case ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 3-09-2010 03:55 PM (13 years ago) (m) But what if the confrontation turns out to be false accusation? Is she SURE she got something from him? A wrong "attack" can cost her the relationship o. See I'm a guy, If I had a girl I was sleeping with and she came and confronted me for giving her an STI/STD and I know I have not been sleeping elsewhere, she'd put an instant dent in the trust I have for her, cos the next line of thot would be "if I she didnt get it from me she most certainly got it from some other guy." If on the other hand she came and complained to me that she has an itch and some irritation each time we have sex, I'd tell her to see a doc and then go see one myself. It could be the toilet thing or one of us is sleeping around. I figure if she came to tell me, there may be chances she didnt get it from some other guy cos logically she wouldn't tell but keep it from me. Anyway, tell her to go see a doc. | Posted: at 3-09-2010 03:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 3-09-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago) (f) Well she alredy knew what to do as for the medical aspect but i just want us to share opinion on how to confront your partner if "he/she infects you with an STI" That is the major reason for the post
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 3-09-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 3-09-2010 04:17 PM (13 years ago) (m) so Onyii, ur colleague go carry OKO junction, Eeeekwa
and instead of seeing a doctor na u she go consult?
did u refer her to see a doctor b4 insinuating dis ur cheat angle?!
Well maybe i did not put the question right .She did a test right it was confirmed she has some fungal and microbial proliferation . Though this is not a condition that is solelly segxwally transmissible, there are other possibilities . In most cases the two partners need to see a doctor together . According to her , knowing she has not done anything unsual her major proble is how does she confront him ? My reason of sharing this here is to find out the possible methods of confrontation in such cases l think yu and her Suspect dat he's the One dat Transmitted it 2 her? Yu Women Seem 2 forget dat the Female Organ has a lot of Bacteria (Both Good and Bad) Did the Doctor tell her dat She caught it thru Sex?
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 3-09-2010 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Ballsy") Ballsy at 3-09-2010 04:44 PM (13 years ago) (m) ochendu, u just hit it d way i wud have...its for their collective good | Posted: at 3-09-2010 04:44 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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