He wants me to change my hairstyle..is that controlling? (Page 3)

Now he shows that he cares, you
are still complaining, if he doesn't care,
what will you be doing then?

Posted: at 8-09-2010 04:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U no talk now o......no come dey vex later o

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Posted: at 8-09-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I don't think in this case it's a control issue because you said yourself that you didn't' like the style. But had you liked it and he insist that you re-do it? then it can be a form of control even if he is the one paying for it. It's a mind game! Basically because they're the one taking care of whatever it is they think they personally own you and that's how it usually starts and eventually will lead to abuse....I hope this is the only situation he has done that and nothing similar is going on in your relationship . Because if he is this way with other things then sorry to tell you this. But you maybe heading towards being abused..............

Posted: at 8-09-2010 04:15 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

No be soo ma broda,she get sumtin wey Yoruba pple dey cal "itara aje"

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Posted: at 8-09-2010 04:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

YOU HAVE A BIG PROBLEM YOU DON'T KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT. ARE YOU NOT BETTER OFF BEING CONTROLLED. ANOTHER THING IF THAT YOUR 120.00 IS IN NAIRA I DON'T THINK THAT AMOUNT WILL GET THE TYPE OF HAIRDO EITHER YOU OR YOUR BF WILL LIKE

Posted: at 8-09-2010 04:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I DON'T THINK IT  IS IN DOLLARS MAY BE IN CEDIS

Posted: at 8-09-2010 04:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

You better go and do the hair as he asked you, what has been in control got to do with what he wants for u and himself, He's the one that sees you and knows what looks good on you. Tell your friend to stay away from your relationship b4 her/his advise will lead you to another thing.

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Posted: at 8-09-2010 04:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

no big deal babe.

Posted: at 8-09-2010 05:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Do U feel controlled by his request?

I don't think it's controlling but then again that depends on how he put it. Was it an order or a request, cos although he paid and he's ur guy it's still Ur body.
If he didnt ask nicely then it he myt be lording over U. U know him better so U should be able to tell us better.

Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

my broda new Ghana Ceddis strong pass naira ooo...

Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac