PLS I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ABOUT SIX YEARS NOW. AND EACH TIME I TRY TO QUIT MY SAYS NO. NOW HE IS ASKING FOR MY HAND IN MARRIAGE BUT AM AFAIRD COS THE SIX YEARS HAVE BEEN WITH MUCH UPS AND DOWN. TODAY SWEET TOMORROW BITTER. SHOULD I CONTINUE OR NOT ?
Posted: at 14-09-2010 02:11 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
bittersweet at 14-09-2010 02:23 PM (13 years ago) (f)
First, why you have been trying to quit several times? That's important! And 2nd,if you feel that you shouldn't marry him,than don't do it! It seems like he kept you in this relationship with some emotional blackmail or something?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 14-09-2010 02:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 14-09-2010 02:28 PM (13 years ago) (f)
If you cant tolerate him while you guys were still dating, do you think you can after u have married him?..........that which made you want to leave him each time will always rear its ugly head up........it is easier to get out of a courtship, but marriage is a different cup of tea altogether....so do what you think is best becos I cant chose for you!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 14-09-2010 02:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
tmusowoya at 14-09-2010 03:04 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: snedy on 14-09-2010 02:11 PM
PLS I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ABOUT SIX YEARS NOW. AND EACH TIME I TRY TO QUIT MY SAYS NO. NOW HE IS ASKING FOR MY HAND IN MARRIAGE BUT AM AFAIRD COS THE SIX YEARS HAVE BEEN WITH MUCH UPS AND DOWN. TODAY SWEET TOMORROW BITTER. SHOULD I CONTINUE OR NOT ?
Marriage must be enjoyed and not endured. After 6 yrs, surely u must know which of the 2 ur rship promises 2 deliver?
Posted: at 14-09-2010 03:04 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
PLS I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ABOUT SIX YEARS NOW. AND EACH TIME I TRY TO QUIT MY SAYS NO. NOW HE IS ASKING FOR MY HAND IN MARRIAGE BUT AM AFAIRD COS THE SIX YEARS HAVE BEEN WITH MUCH UPS AND DOWN. TODAY SWEET TOMORROW BITTER. SHOULD I CONTINUE OR NOT ?
Marriage must be enjoyed and not endured. After 6 yrs, surely u must know which of the 2 ur rship promises 2 deliver?
gbam! thumb up!
Posted: at 14-09-2010 03:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Treasure2 at 14-09-2010 04:11 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: snedy on 14-09-2010 02:11 PM
PLS I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ABOUT SIX YEARS NOW. AND EACH TIME I TRY TO QUIT MY SAYS NO. NOW HE IS ASKING FOR MY HAND IN MARRIAGE BUT AM AFAIRD COS THE SIX YEARS HAVE BEEN WITH MUCH UPS AND DOWN. TODAY SWEET TOMORROW BITTER. SHOULD I CONTINUE OR NOT ?
POSTER, WHATEVER YOU CAN NOT CHANGE NOW, U WILL NEVER CHANGE IT IN MARRIAGE. THINK VERY WELL. YOUR EMOTION SHOULD NOT BECLOUD YOU. IT IS FOR BETTER FOR WORST OOOOOOOOOOOO.
Posted: at 14-09-2010 04:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
PLS I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ABOUT SIX YEARS NOW. AND EACH TIME I TRY TO QUIT MY SAYS NO. NOW HE IS ASKING FOR MY HAND IN MARRIAGE BUT AM AFAIRD COS THE SIX YEARS HAVE BEEN WITH MUCH UPS AND DOWN. TODAY SWEET TOMORROW BITTER. SHOULD I CONTINUE OR NOT ?
he who wears de shoe knows where it pinches him most...check ur front and back and remember dat de devil u know is better than de Angel u do not know...things is not always stable..UPS and DOWN dats how life is
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS
Posted: at 14-09-2010 04:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
A guy has been phyukin u 4 six yrs and still asks 4 ur hand and u can't even thank him! Those telling u to dump him have stupidness in their Dna........if u like,let dis chance pass u by, beleive me u will die weeping
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza
Posted: at 14-09-2010 05:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 14-09-2010 06:04 PM (13 years ago) (m)
@poster! MARRIAGE IS NOT SOMETHING YOU JUMP INTO JUST LIKE THAT! You've got to watch the marriage at a close range to know if you can fit in the gap. Its for better for worse__So I don't anyone can make this decision for you...IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOU!!!
I Case my rest
Posted: at 14-09-2010 06:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 14-09-2010 06:07 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: snedy on 14-09-2010 02:11 PM
PLS I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR ABOUT SIX YEARS NOW. AND EACH TIME I TRY TO QUIT MY SAYS NO. NOW HE IS ASKING FOR MY HAND IN MARRIAGE BUT AM AFAIRD COS THE SIX YEARS HAVE BEEN WITH MUCH UPS AND DOWN. TODAY SWEET TOMORROW BITTER. SHOULD I CONTINUE OR NOT ?
thats what love and relationship is all about...ups and down....
misshelly at 14-09-2010 06:58 PM (13 years ago) (f)
The firs question is do u really love this guy, i don't mean if u love him for something? but love him for him?
Secondly, relationship is a process of studying someone, but if u say the six years studies have not yet make you feel at home with him...... Then gurl i will say ' u need to call him for THE TALK maybe there something u might work out together to make the relationship work better, but if not, u alone knw what can make you happy......But BS asked you a question i will like you to anwser, so that we all can move to the next step in helping you with advice
Posted: at 14-09-2010 06:58 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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