"My Father Was A Great Dad, But An Abusive Husband" — Actress Ada Karl Opens Up

Date: 27-07-2020 7:40 am (4 years ago) | Author: success Xenab
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Nollywood actress, Ada Karl, has opened up about her growing up in an abusive environment.

She made the revelation in a recent interview with TheNation. When asked about her childhood memories, the actress said: “I don’t recall anything good, just the bad ones. Like my dad physically abusing my mum – it wasn’t a palatable experience.”

On how it affected her relationship with men, she said: “I was very suspicious of any man that said ‘hello’ to me because I assumed all men were the same.

I was traumatised and assumed all men were abusive. It affected my view about men. Growing up, I considered being a Nun, but I came from a Pentecostal and Anglican background. So, l wasn’t even bold enough to discuss that with my parents.

Managing the trauma of domestic violence is tough! I never told my friends in school because I was shy and also scared of my dad. My father being an amazing dad also made it harder for me because I felt nobody would believe me.

I still wonder how he could have been such a great dad and an abusive husband, but again he whiplashed us a lot; which is also a trace of abuse. But as a typical African child, I never viewed that as abuse but as an adult I think he was a bit extreme with his disciplinary measures to us.”


Posted: at 27-07-2020 07:40 AM (4 years ago) | Hero
- kaposky at 27-07-2020 08:39 AM (4 years ago)
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UPON ALL THOSE DISCIPLINE HE GAVE TO U, STILL U CHOSE TO A SPOILT BE WAYWARD DAUGHTER. LOOK AT THE RUBBISH U WEAR AS A CLOTHE
Posted: at 27-07-2020 08:39 AM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Boi2Man at 27-07-2020 05:24 PM (4 years ago)
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I just tire oo nahi be say if he not receive discipline she for don troway clothes dey  waka Nood
Posted: at 27-07-2020 05:24 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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