I have been dating this guy for six months now,he loves me and i love him too.i realize that i am one month pregnant for him.i told him and he said he will come to pay my dowry.two days later,he called and told me to abort it.Am afraid to abort it but he insist.Giving me excuses like am not in school yet,how will he tel my parents e.t.c.I don't know what to do.pls pals help me
Posted: at 8-10-2010 03:49 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
mydicksweet at 8-10-2010 03:56 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Gurl dont even think of aborting the baby to start with there's a good reason why ur pregnant the baby might be the one to left ur family up in the future personally i hate anything that has to do with abortion..... all i see here is that maybe he's scared of being a father dont listen to his lame excuses like i've just said he is scared of being a father and if i may ask how old is he?
Posted: at 8-10-2010 03:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Oh boy!.My dear,you need to be bold and strong.Everychild is a blessings from God.Pray to God for help and rely on him.As for the guy,dont even bother calling him, forget him..He's not ready to be a father,trust me.Dont even think of marrying such person who's so confused,becos in future he might want an "OUT".I feel for you.Forget the past and move forward.Its all about you and your baby.
Posted: at 8-10-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 8-10-2010 04:06 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: rose4646 on 8-10-2010 03:49 PM
I have been dating this guy for six months now,he loves me and i love him too.i realize that i am one month pregnant for him.i told him and he said he will come to pay my dowry.two days later,he called and told me to abort it.Am afraid to abort it but he insist.Giving me excuses like am not in school yet,how will he tel my parents e.t.c.I don't know what to do.pls pals help me
Didnt he realise you werent in school before he went drilling?........dont listen to his lame excuse jor.....and who said you cant go to school after you might have had your kid?...........if he is afraid of telling his parents, you will do it for him!..it is the same guy that forces you to abort for him today that would kick you out tomorrow becos you have had an abort...........rubbish!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 8-10-2010 04:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 8-10-2010 04:09 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Oh,my Gosh! Playing without protection in the 21st century? DO NOT ABORT THE CHILD! If he will not be man enough to take the responsibility,don't worry,God will help get you through!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 8-10-2010 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
I have been dating this guy for six months now,he loves me and i love him too.i realize that i am one month pregnant for him.i told him and he said he will come to pay my dowry.two days later,he called and told me to abort it.Am afraid to abort it but he insist.Giving me excuses like am not in school yet,how will he tel my parents e.t.c.I don't know what to do.pls pals help me
hmmmmm be careful..dat might be de only child God kept in ur womb
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS
Posted: at 8-10-2010 05:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
guyz culd be so dangerous nd wicked atimes..nd if u shuld check it out now.u will realise dat it woz d guy dat kicked against usin CD wen goin in2 d Jerusalem..nd now he is scared of is own handy work....kipin dat baby is gonna bring u lotta criticism bt i can't advice u 2 go 4 abortion 2 b sincere..bt God knows d best sha...
Posted: at 8-10-2010 05:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac