Well the obvious thing to do is ‘breakup with him’ … but I can’t seem to get myself to do that.
The problem is, he’s emotionally cheated on me once before. I found out through reading his msn history that he forgot to delete, and also his facebook messages he was sending to girls. Now, the probelm is I can’t trust him at all. He says he’s trying to help me get over it.. but all we do is fight. I am 27, and my biggest fear is that I’m going to be alone forever at this age.. and I’ll be 30 and not married. As well, I don’t want to lose him. I believe in my heart that if we break up, he is just going to go back to his flirty ways and go chat with girls again. My heart will break if that happends. Yes, I’ve gone through break ups before. I’ve been through this pain many times in my life.. but I’m so much more afriad to lose my current boyfriend. Perhaps it’s my age. My question is… what do I do? Should I s*ck it up and try to forget what he did? I’m afriad that if I give my full trust to him, he’ll just break it again. If we break up, it’s not gonna keep me happy either. What are some ways to forget a guy? or perhaps, what’s the best thing to do in this situation? My boyfriend always throws in the fact when we fight that it isn’t fair to him .. he says it isn’t fair that i dont give him a chance to gain his trust back. He says it’s unfair I accuse him for cheating even now, just because of what happend.
Posted: at 9-10-2010 10:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
The problem is that, two of them don't trust each other anymore and it is good to live with someone who doesn't trust, because they will never be happiness without trust.
And for the lady, I don't think this will be the end if they should break up. The truth is that, we entangle ourselves with one person too much that we don't know who really value us. There will never be a better yesterday if you know who you are.
Posted: at 9-10-2010 12:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
It sounds like a rap song,lol. On a serious note though, there's no reason to continue a relationship with someone you cannot trust, tell that to ur friend, coz one will just end up dying young from hypertension.
Posted: at 9-10-2010 01:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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