Can u marry a guy dat already has a child? (Page 9)

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Posted: at 24-10-2010 07:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i can marry a woman that has child b4

Posted: at 25-10-2010 12:35 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

yes i can, there is nothin wrong with it, they need love too

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Posted: at 25-10-2010 02:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

its easy to marry a man who's got a kid b4 that the other way round Our people talk sey (agbogho turu ime okongwo aluo ya) means if girl get belle na oldcrgo go marry am.
Not new chases like me.

Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

  8)Why not ? If there has been a traditional , court or church wedding which would mean divorce , i cannot marry a divorcee because God hates divorce .
 As long as single mothers exist, single fathers will exist and they will marry someday. If the two parties had a child but never been married in any rite, YES I CAN .

Posted: at 25-10-2010 09:50 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Love conquers all mistakes ever made so if the child is still very young I would so love to adopt the child but if the child is old enough, I wouldn't mind but I hope the kid won't hate me and yep as bittersweet says the kid's mom must be out of the question.....

Posted: at 25-10-2010 11:29 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

yes

Posted: at 25-10-2010 01:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Yep! Come to think of it; what if you both would not be able to bear children after your wedding and having been medically certified ok. So, my opinion is that it would be advisable to go ahead and marry him provided you love him.

Posted: at 25-10-2010 02:07 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

not so. if u treat the child like ur own he/she would love u as mother and may not even regonise his/her child. am speaking 4rm experience.

Posted: at 25-10-2010 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

if the child is a girl yes but if he is a boy no, my reason is dat when grown up girl can marry and leave but the man stays sometimes causes trouble with the brothers especialy when find out that u d dad is not d biological father to their senior brother mean d guy,they will not be showing enough respect to him.

Posted: at 25-10-2010 03:21 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie